Thursday, July 28, 2005

Jus Like Ocean Ou...

欧得洋本人不但长的很帅,而且声音又好听,歌唱得也很好听 很感人,脾气也很好,人非常具有亲和力——是新好男生类型的,欧欧也非常具有人格魅力——没有大明星的架子 对歌迷的每一帖留言 都一封封的回,又有钱(其实这点不重要),学历也非常高——是做医药研究工作的,然后听过对欧欧的访谈之后,又发现——欧欧非常的幽默,也非常的阳光,所有访谈过欧欧的主持人都说欧欧长得不错 很帅哦!!

我道认为他应该是粉迷糊.

最喜欢欧欧对女友的体贴,懂得买花逗人‘哈哈笑’。。

忘了,他还有深如刀割的双眼皮~~这是许多女生梦寐以求的!!!!~

欧欧本人正如歌里面唱的,是个好好男生哦!!!还有 欧欧还会弹吉他哦,很有才华的!!!

Sunday, July 24, 2005

Horoscope Compatibility...

Aries + Virgo

Fire + Earth = Lava

The cool, critical perfection-loving Virgo is a completely different kettle of fish for you, Aries. In fact, Virgo is so different that you may feel completely at odds, even irritated and angry with the moral control they exhibit. Conversely, your fast, furious and impulsive nature will throw Virgo into a complete tailspin. This is a combination not for the faint of heart.

As with Taurus, the first of the earth signs, Virgo and Capricorn also relate to your financial and professional arena. Though a preliminary study shows you and Virgo are quite incompatible, Aries can learn much about the order and meticulousness of Virgo and perhaps apply that to life. If you’re open enough and patient in absorbing these intricate methodologies of Virgo, you could discover life skills by applying Virgo’s advice.

The straightforwardness of Aries is unadorned, unlike the complex intellectual and deductive mind of Virgo. Both of you have similar ideals but present your views and live your principles in a vastly different manner. This is also the case sexually. Virgo seems too prim and proper for your raw and primitive energy. But there’s no doubt that Virgo was born to serve, as you were born to lead. In this sense there could be a quirky sort of compatibility between you. Don’t be too quick to jump to conclusions, especially in matters of love.

If you choose to work with each other, there could be a unique success in the supportive role Virgo could offer you. You could spontaneously feed ideas to a partner who will hone in on and refine your concepts to a working and practical success.

If you do feel attracted to a Virgo, possibly due to some karmic longing, those born in the third portion will be far more suitable for you, that is, born from 13 to 23 September. Try to avoid partnerships with those born between 3 and 13 September. Other Virgos, born between 24 August and 2 September, are only moderately compatible.

Virgo + Taurus

Earth + Earth = Solid Ground

Here is a combination that is elementally perfect, astrologically. Taurus and Virgo can complement each other on many levels. For a start, the combination of two earth signs solidifies the practical nature of your relationship and this means that you are aware and accommodating of Taurus’ need for financial independence and material security. Taurus must be prepared for your fastidious and perfection-driven approach. They are far more plodding in nature and the sort of mental challenge you offer may tire them, even though they essentially agree with your suggestions.

Virgo will stimulate Taurus in discussion but, after some time, Taurus will quietly and assertively inform you that some quiet space is needed in which they—and your intellectual aerobics—can take rest. Your highly mental approach may see this as an insult and feel that Taurus just isn’t motivated enough. You both need to find common interests; activities or hobbies such as art, fashion, music and even cooking could be a wonderful joint activity that counters your intellectual differences. Taurus can relax your high-strung nature and bring your lifestyles in line with each other.

Because Virgo is the fifth or romantic sector for Taurus, there’s no doubt that your physical pleasure will be mutual and this is certainly a relationship you should work at. Consider those Taureans born between 30 April and 10 May, as the co-rulership of Mercury naturally draws you to them and brings out your best essence. You can have exciting times and amorous adventures with Taureans born between 21 and 29 April. Venus promises lots of love and affection between you and this could develop into a mature and rewarding relationship. Any love and intimacy you experience with Taureans born between 11 and 21 May has the taint of Saturn and may not ultimately fulfil you.

Virgo + Gemini

Earth + Air = Dust

There are some intrinsic differences between Virgo and Gemini, notwithstanding their common rulership of Mercury. Gemini senses many similarities in your Virgo temperament but may feel at times exasperated with your perfectionist attitude toward detail. You probably enjoy playing mental games and communicating with each other, but Gemini is more likely to skim the surface rather than dive into the minutiae, which your mind has a tendency to do.

Virgo is the fourth sign to Gemini and indicates the domestic and family sphere. You will actually provide Gemini a safe haven from which to conduct the various activities that seem to be part of their world. They’ll feel more anchored with you, as your earth sign will give them the sense of security and even financial stability that they lack, due to their dispersed nature. For this reason there are some positive elements that seem to connect between the two of you. Gemini does have a propensity to be more light-hearted and jocular about things and this could be cause for concern for you because you like to see things in a more solemn way. Gemini should never offend your sensibilities as innocent as their jokes may appear. You would also do well to imbibe some of the light-heartedness of Gemini.

On the lovemaking side of things, you are fairly conservative, having Saturn ruling your sexual nature, whereas Gemini and its Venus-ruled sexual sector of Libra is much more sensual and playful. This is probably not the greatest match between zodiac signs, but has several redeeming factors and could well be well worth a try.

If you’re choosing a Gemini as a partner, those born between 22 May and 1 June are very well suited to you and provide you with incredibly stimulating conversation. You’ll work well with them and play will be fun, too. Those born between 2 and 12 June are co-ruled by Venus and Libra and there is more of a material foundation to your friendship, though there may be moments of pleasure intertwined in the connection. If you come in touch with those born between 13 and 21 June, the complex interplay of Aquarius as co-ruler promises challenges, but if you’re prepared to persist, this combination can also bring you fulfilment.

Virgo + Cancer

Earth + Water = Mud

This is a rich and fertile combination of two feminine zodiac signs ruled by Mercury and the Moon respectively. A Virgo and Cancer combination can produce wonderfully imaginative results on all levels. The sensitive Moon of Cancer and your intellectually brilliant ruler, Mercury, combine in a most wonderful play of celestial forces. Great friendship and understanding result from your meeting, but at times you’ll have difficulty understanding the Cancerian sensitivity and emotional mood swings. When you ask Cancer to “think things through, without being so emotional about it”, Cancer will look at you strangely and reply, “But can’t you feel what I’m feeling?” Both of you are at opposite ends of the spectrum in the way you see a particular problem: Cancer emotionally, and you, Virgo, intellectually. Cancer is a friendly sign to Virgo and a sector of life fulfilment, so you can slowly but surely accept and start to experience the more responsive side of their personality. Likewise, Cancer can become more reasonable as the empathy between the two of you is strong and will grow over time.

The one specific area you must control is the tendency to criticise and judge Cancer severely. Cancer’s vulnerability, being what it is, may not withstand your ruthless and at times incessant demand for perfection. This may also, unfortunately, be translated into the most private area of sexuality, where you may demand a performance that is not in keeping with Cancer’s easier-going, slower and more receptive nature.

Good friendship and social alliances are created with those Cancers born between 22 June and 3 July. You can also have strong and long-standing ties with any Cancer born between 14 and 22 July. These Cancerians will provide you with by far the most satisfying emotional and physical compatibility. Problems may arise with Cancerians born between 4 and 13 July and you’re advised to abstain from too much criticism of these sensitive and sometimes implacable people.

Virgo + Leo

Earth + Fire = Lava

In coming together with Leo you’ll have an early realisation that their boldness and strong ego may steamroll your modest and prudent mind. Leo is strongly required to be sensitive to you by not going beyond certain bounds of power and control. You also exert power but in a less forceful manner and have a tendency to work behind the scenes and in a more exacting and self-sacrificial manner. Your key focus is on the service and excellence of your professional and general duties. Leo isn’t concerned so much with the detail as with being first, wielding power and winning accolades in the “game”. They like to dominate a situation rather than remain invisible.

Virgo, you have a tendency to look at microscopic details which, if directed to the proud and arrogant Leo, could set sparks flying. Leo is rarely wrong (at least in their own mind) and is usually beyond reproach. You will have to carefully assess how to constructively criticise your Leo. There are some strong connections financially between your two star signs, as Virgo falls in the second or financial sector of Leo, whereas Leo falls in the twelfth or loss sector for you. This equation on a financial level isn’t too balanced, and you must be careful not to give too much in the way of material assistance as well emotional energy to the Leo character, lest you feel taken advantage of.

Though you may feel uplifted by the warm radiations of Leo in the bedroom, the same can’t be said for Leo’s experience of Virgo. You seem too prim and proper for the bombastic and dramatic Leo, who prefers a roaring time sexually to your more modest display of affection. Your compatibility with those Leos born between 23 July and 4 August will shine a light on your otherwise mentally-orientated states. You can feel warmth and camaraderie with these people and friendship flourishes as a result. Your strong combination for a more enduring relationship is with those Leos born between 5 and 14 August. Jupiter will bless you and provide you with a true match made in heaven. It’s best to avoid those Leos born between 15 and 23 August, as their Mars co-rulership may create lots of problems, disputes and backbiting.

Virgo + Virgo

Earth + Earth = Solid Ground

Your exacting and precise Virgo character will meet its match in association with another Virgo. Perfectionism is not something easily attained and your coming together with another Virgo will help you to realise that human perfection is not possible and that you must make concessions for the frailties found in each other. Your Virgo counterpart will demand as much perfection from you as you do of them. This combination is quite likely to be an incredible challenge for both of you from the outset.

The lesson for your partnership is that you must enjoy the journey and take pleasure in the experience of life. On the journey to your goals don’t be too critical of each other, raising the standards to such a high level that neither of you can achieve them. You both do great work in your combined partnership when focused, though. Wholly and solely focus on enjoying the work at hand, as well as executing skilful action, and this will bring satisfaction to both of you in the long run. Notwithstanding these exacting demands on each other, you do have a lot in common in that you enjoy a clean and orderly environment and wish to pursue your individual and joint goals.

In intimacy and lovemaking you have a similar approach to the expression of your feelings. When you’re prepared to let go of your cerebral game play, your love life can be rather sweet and reciprocating. For Virgos, the best compatibilities are those born between 23 August and 2 September. There’s a more serious tone with those born between 3 and 12 September, with an obsession for material acquisition stunting any inner happiness, due to Capricorn’s co-rulership. Virgos born between 13 and 23 September are those who are co-ruled by Taurus and Venus and will be well suited to you, due to their softer and more stabilising influence.

Virgo + Libra

Earth + Air = Dust

This is a wonderful combination and complements you perfectly. The social and outgoing Libra balances your temperament. Libra will be a great aid in bringing you out of your shell, especially if you’re one of the more withdrawn types. The wonderful thing about Libra for you is the absorptive quality they possess in handling any of the criticisms you may dish out. The reason for this is that Libra has the ability to see various sides of a situation and uses their ‘scales of justice’ to accept that what you say is without bias. The Libran ego is not that big that it won’t accommodate your perspectives or opinions and honestly try to implement them, particularly if that can improve your relationship.

The one difficulty with Libra, however, is that your keen attention to a preset program or timetable may not fit with their rather changeable and spontaneous mindset. You will need to accommodate the sociable Libran temperament and give them free reign in exploring their social appetites. Libra is interested in exploring the sexual and emotional side of life and you need to consider this cautiously, especially with those born between 14 and 23 October, who may have a less traditional attitude. This is even more pronounced with those born between 4 and 13 October, as they have the added influence of Aquarius making them very progressive, if not avant-garde in their attitudes to love. In fact, you may find them quite “hippy like”. Those born between 24 September and 3 October will make you feel loved and honoured as Venus doubly rules their energy, thus quieting your rather critical personality. This will make you more open and expressive about your feelings. This relationship between Virgo and Libra is essentially a good one.

Virgo + Scorpio

Earth + Water = Mud

Earth and water are the prerequisite elements for the growth of plants. Life depends on these two things. In other words, if a seed is planted at the appropriate time the combination of elements gives rise to a harvest. This analogy can best sum up the compatibility between the earth sign of Virgo and the water sign of Scorpio. There are many born under these two signs who have come together. They have been able to either secure a fulfiling life together or have squabbled incessantly into old age. Generally there’s a good connection between these two signs, as Virgo falls in the eleventh sector of friendship and lifelong fulfilment for Scorpio, and Scorpio falls in the third sector of communication for Virgo. Two very different planets rule you and a deeper appreciation of each other’s motives will help enormously in resolving any differences you may have.

The Pluto and Mars rulership of Scorpio is dominant, wilful and challenging in a most confrontational way, whereas your more prudent mind does battle intellectually. In a permanent relationship you may feel as though Scorpio’s insensitive attitude doesn’t respect or incorporate your needs or desires. Scorpio, on the other hand, becomes irritated with, if not disdainful of your laid-back and overly rational analysis of every little issue.

If Scorpio lightens up you will feel more motivated in this relationship. Both on a practical level and in matters of intimacy, this relationship has all the hallmarks of a great combination. This is particularly so for Scorpio, as you will offer great grounding where finances and investments are concerned. This combination can work towards financial stability and a mutual support system that offers both of you prosperity, security and happiness.

In your connections with Scorpio, those born between 3 and 12 November are ideally suited to long-term love and possibly marriage, due to Jupiter’s co-rulership, which falls in your seventh sector of marriage. Be wary of those Scorpios born between 24 October and 2 November, whose Mars co-rulership is diametrically opposed to your own. You may not see eye to eye with them on many matters. Those born between 13 and 22 offer you both gains and losses intermittently, and many of your karmic lessons will be tied up in your financial relationship with them. Remember the old saying: never mix business with pleasure.

Virgo + Sagittarius

Earth + Fire = Lava

Your ruling planet is Mercury, which is primarily concerned with detail. In contrast, Jupiter, which rules Sagittarius, is predominantly preoccupied with the bigger picture of life, love and circumstances generally. Both are mutable signs and indicate a certain pliability and adaptability so, in this regard, both of you will find similarities that can work positively for the success of your relationships.

Both of you must learn to see each other’s views and not be engrossed in your own perspectives. You must learn to let go of your more detailed criticism of things and see the outcome rather than the process, whereas Sagittarius must mull over the process rather than the outcome. The fact of the matter is that the combined influence of your ruling planets is a wonderfully ennobling combination, promising you plenty of intellectual and spiritual stimulation. Virgo can enhance the professional opportunities of Sagittarius, while Sagittarius needs to work a little more on staying grounded and developing the domestic sphere—which is very much the other side of your earthy Virgo needs.

In the love stakes there is a considerable difference in style. Your shy and reserved expression doesn’t usually give way to your deeper passions. Sagittarius is an enterprising visionary and prefers to experiment with these natural urges. If you are to enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship with Sagittarius, you need to put aside your mental gymnastics and simply enjoy the moment for what it is. Sagittarius will appreciate you all the more for it.

Your relationship with those born between 23 November and 1 December is probably the best fit. Those born between 2 and 11 December are abrasive to you. This is due to the co-rulership by Aries and Mars. In fact, this could be a dangerous combination and should be approached with caution. The fiery nature of these Sagittarians could cause a nervous burnout to your delicate Virgo system. The Sun and Leo, on the other hand, co-rule Sagittarians born between 12 and 22 December and they also may not offer you everything you are looking for in a partner. Nevertheless, they do have something to bring to a relationship in the way of spiritual insight. You may meet these people while travelling or indulge your penchant for long-distance travel with them.

Virgo + Capricorn

Earth + Earth = Solid Ground

The elemental compatibility of Virgo with Capricorn is a no-brainer. You have an instantaneous rapport with Capricorn who will seem less serious and work-orientated than they might with other star signs. Though you both essentially have a thoroughly economical and pragmatic view of the world, your rulership by Mercury will draw out the more sullen Saturn-ruled Capricorn and make them feel refreshed, youthful and responsive to you. In the ancient Hindu system of astrology Mercury is called a young boy, which is possibly why Capricorns feel revitalised in your company. Mercury will bring out the more mischievous and pleasurable side of the usually cold and ambitious Capricorn. This is not to say both of you can’t work towards a material goal, but in your company Capricorn will feel more enlivened, more joyful and prepared to let go of the walls and protective mechanisms that are often a part of their conventional nature.

Though this seems to be more of a business-orientated relationship, Capricorn does fall in the fifth sector to Virgo and strongly highlights the amorous nature of this combination. Could it be that with a Capricorn you don’t feel as much of a tendency to be critical and to superimpose your concept of things? This in itself is what could bring out the more sensitive and loving aspects of Capricorn, though always against the background of a desire to provide you security and long-term comfort.

Those Capricorns born between 11 and 20 January will be ideally suited to you because the co-rulership of Mercury and Virgo for them is a perfect match. Those born between 23 December and 1 January are well suited and more financial and material objectives of the friendship may result. A sensual experience can be expected with those born between 2 and 10 January under the co-rulership of Taurus and Venus.

Virgo + Aquarius

Earth + Air = Dust

If ever a sign were going to challenge and baffle the observant Virgo, Aquarius would certainly be it. There is an unusually strange compatibility between you and this may not be immediately recognisable. Your first meetings may come about through some work or professional interaction in which Aquarius is called upon to assist you. You probably see much of yourself in the humanitarian and socially conscious Aquarian, but in a different way. The Aquarian is not as preoccupied with the nitty-gritty of things as you are, but is still very concerned with the idea of contributing to the community and the world as a whole. These noble ideas will attract your Virgo sensibilities and are a good basis for a relationship.

Aquarius needs to be mindful of tidiness and order, which is high on your list of priorities. They must accept that an orderly existence is crucial for you but they may be less concerned about these matters. Between the two of you there could be some idealistic tie-in in which you both serve each other by bringing your distinctly different skill sets together, amalgamating them for some greater cause. Just don’t superimpose any fussiness on the aloof Aquarian.

You may see in Aquarius an ideal that doesn’t fit easily into your intellectual ‘square’. This also applies to sex and intimacy. You must learn to be freer and more open in exploring what Aquarius has on offer. The best match would be with an Aquarian born between 31 January and 8 February, as they possess several similar intellectual traits to you. Aquarians born between 9 and 19 February are also well suited as partners and provide you with abundant sexual enjoyment. Those born between 21 and 30 January are probably the hardest lot for you to come to terms with. They may be better suited as work colleagues rather than as long-term romantic mates.

Virgo + Pisces

Earth + Water = Mud

The anomaly in a union between Virgo and Pisces is that both signs are opposite and usually indicate strong, marital inclinations. At the same time, you have such different approaches in terms of your personalities that it is quite surprising you would be attracted in the first place! But attracted you are and this is possibly due to the intuitive nature of Pisces, which is just what you need to bring out your less rational and emotional nature. Simultaneously, your astute intellectual manner will be well imbibed by your Pisces counterpart.

Both of you are changeable and moody in your own way, and the deeper issue here is that you are particularly motivated to understand, categorise and solve each and every problem meticulously. Pisces is happy to let the deeper spiritual forces bring answers to them. You may interpret this as a form of intellectual laziness and will even see it as ample opportunity for attack. Sensitive Pisces may not retaliate, since water signs tend to be deep and brooding and bide their time until the appropriate occasion for a response. The sharp and caustic criticism of Virgo will scar Pisces deeply and this will, in the long run, scare them off. The onus is on you, Virgo, to pull back a little and not make such heavy demands. With a tactful approach, a thriving partnership can be expected and possibly even a marriage of souls.

Your best combinations are with Pisces born between 20 and 28 February and these Pisces will offer you the most stable and continuing chances for a fulfiling relationship. Those Pisces born between 1 and 10 March also make great friends and sensitive admirers. Those born between 11 and 20 March are strong communicators, but may not be quite as open to your criticisms. In fact, a retaliatory response from those born in this period can be expected.

Would You Let Go?

if ur girl is willing to be with through all pain n problems it means she really loves u n she is willing to endure all the pain u face....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u truly?

if ur girl is happy for u no matter what ur happy about its means that she willing to share ur joy n happiness even if at that moment she is goin through pain....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who truly loves u?

if ur girl tells u that she loves the way u hold, touch n embrace her it means that she is letting u noe that ur special to her n that she loves everything about u.....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?

if ur girl always says that ur better than her in all field it means that she always wans to b number two after u n she always wans u there to guide her through her life n most importantly she respects u....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?

if ur girl never gives up n always waits for u patiently no matter how long it takes for u to come back to her it means that she never wanna b without u n ur the only one in her heart n the one she truly loves......would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?

if ur girl never asks u why u never call or say 'i love u' to her as often as she does it means that she's trying her best to understand ur situation n she doesnt wanna u to get sick of her complaning. it means she really loves u n she's so damn understanding....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?

if ur girl never rushes u into a relationship even after u confess ur feelings to her just bcoz u told her to wait for u till ur work is done it means dat she is willing to wait for u for the rest of her life just to hear the word yes i wanna b with u bcoz she loves only u n she's willing to sacrifice it....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?

if ur girl cries for u just becoz she misses u it means that she always wans to be wit u n she only feels secure when she's wit u....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?

Cherish

Message:
This is really sad.
If you have problems in your relationships, try and fix them.
Dont pretend its okay.
Dont push your girls away, they are everything to you.
Maybe the best thing for you.
Listen to them, Treat them like princesses, go out of your way once and a while for them, take care of them when they are sad, and dont let go.

Girl: hey baby i want to show you....
Boy: ( cutting her off ) ugh i'm so mad
Girl: why? whats wrong ?
Boy: ugh everything
Girl: explain baby
Boy: just lost a championship game, parents flipped out on me for no reason, and im catching a cold
Girl: well hey there will always be other games, you know i'll take care of you when you r sick, what your parents flip about ?
Boy: they are making me pay them for a car repair
Girl: is it alot of money
Boy: no it just sucks
Boy: but hey i dont feel well im going to go lay down
Boy: bye
Girl: wait i want to give you some...
Boy: cant it wait til tommorow ?
Girl: yeah sure
Girl: bye
Boy: bye

2 hours later a friend of hers asks her to go for a drive ... she goes..... her friend swerved to avoid a truck.... hitting a tree instead her friend was killed instantly.... she's in critical condition

This is the conversation between her sister and her boyfriend
Sister: omg ( crying )
Boy: what? whats wrong ?
Sister: my sister... your gf was involved in a major car wreck
Boy: is she ok ??????
Sister: shes in critical condition
Boy: i'll be there in 10 minutes

He shows up to the hospital room ...standing outside the door going over the last conversation in his mind over and over as he heard the machines beep and beep and breathing tubes pump

Boy: she wanted to give me something or tell me something
Girls mom: yeah this... it was an envelope smelling like she did sealed with a kiss in lipstick

He opened it.....

It said .....
you r everything to me....
I love you with everything i am and everything i have...
I want to spend the rest of my life with you...

Sealed in it was a ripped movie ticket from the first movie they went to and the first picture they took together

He kissed the picture as a tear fell from his face onto the picture it looked as if in the picture she was crying then the machines flatlined....

3 minutes later she was pronounced dead

Nice Bulletin

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?

If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

You can only go as far as you push!

Actions speak louder than words.

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.

Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.

Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.

Some people make the world special by just being in it.

Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.

True friendship never ends.

Friends are forever.

Good friends are like stars... you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

Don't frown, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.

If u love something...let it go.

If it comes back to you its yours....

If it doesn't then it never was.

A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love.

A hug is just a hug>until its from the one ur thinking of.

A dream is just a dream until u make it come true.

LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.

Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes.

Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.

Bulletin

I only know of one couple that fits to a 't' and they've been married over 70 years... gives the rest of us a challenge.. doesn't it?

Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say, I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."

She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away.

He always liked to do things early, way before the time. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.

She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.

She would sit for hours, In her husband's favorite chair. While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.

A year went by, and it was to live without her mate.

With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate.

Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, The doorbell rang, and there were roses sitting by her door.

She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.

Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.

The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain, Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?

"I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,"

The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you would want to know. The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance.

Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.

There is a standing order, that I have on file down here,

And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year.

There also is another thing, that I think you should know, He wrote a special little card... he did this years ago.

Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here, that's the card that should be sentto you the following year."

She thanked him and hung up the phone, n her tears now flowing hard.

Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached To get the card.

Inside the card, she saw tha the had written her a note.

Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote...

"Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone.

I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.

I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real.

Or if it was the other way,I know how I would feel.

The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.

I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.

You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve.

I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.

When you get these roses, think of all the happiness, That we had together, and how both of us were blessed.

I have always loved you and I know I always will.

But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.

Please... try to find happiness, while living out your days.

I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways.

The roses will come every year, and they will only stop, When your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock.

He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.

But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt To take the roses to the place, where I've instructed him. and place the roses where we are, together once again.

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;

Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.

Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;

Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.

Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

Saturday, July 02, 2005

Fate brings them together, but destiny pulls them apart.

Nice Bulletin posted by my fren though it might be fictitious, gd to have such things to happen (for the first part only la).. Haha

Daniel and Jasmine are sitting alone in the park one night..

Daniel: I guess we are the leftovers in this world

Jasmine: I think so... All of my friends have boyfriends and we are only the 2 persons left in this world without any special person in our lives

Daniel: Yup I don't know what to do

Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game

Daniel: What game?Jasmine: i'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend

Daniel: That's a great plan in fact i don't anything to do for the following weeks...

DAY 1:

They watch their first movie and they both touched in a romantic film

DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have a picnic...Daniel and Jasmine have their quality time together

DAY 12:

Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they ride on a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she touched Daniel's hand but she touched someone else's hand and they both laughed...

DAY 15:

They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice and the fortune teller said: "My darling, Please don't waste the time of your life... Spend the rest of your time together happily." Then tears flow out from the teller's eyes..

DAY 20:

Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something..

DAY 28:

They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident..

DAY 29:

11:37pm

Jasmine and Daniel sat in the park where they first decided to play this game...

Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine...Do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..

Jasmine: Apple Juice that's all..

Daniel: Wait for me....

20mins later... a stranger approached Jasmine

Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?

Jasmine: Why yes? What happened?

Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel and he is critical in the hospital

11:57pm

The doctor went out of the emergency room and he handed out an apple juice and a letter

Doctor: We found this in Daniel’s pocket

Jasmine reads the letter and it says:Jasmine, This past few days, I realized you are a really cute girl and I am really falling for you..Your cherish smile your everything when we played this game... Before this game would end...I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.... I love you Jasmine....

Jasmine crumples the paper and shouted:"Daniel ! I don't want you to die... I love you...Remember that night when we saw a meteor, I mumbled something... I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and never end this game. Please don't leave me Daniel.... I love you! You cannot do this to me!"

Then the clock strikes 12

Daniel's heart stop pumping

THEN IT WAS THE 30TH DAY...

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Always love your loved ones and show them how you feel before it is too late... You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace... If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion and love to your lovedones?

Today is the day.... Love them while they are still here...

Nice Story

From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, but she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?"

As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset.
With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vented her anger on him.
As for him, he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas.
Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talkthem round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, a car that lost control knocked her down. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted tocomfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...

The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides crying in silence, it's still just the silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know whathappened to her. Since then, there wasn't any more news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.

He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.” With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

If u really like the story, repost it so that your frens can read it too....