Very Busy Ar..

Got lots of entries to blog, but too busy to blog.. haiz.. wait til i got time den i blog ba..

Yesterday..

Yesterday was a simple day..
Simple trip..
Simple lunch..
Simple walk at West Mall..
Simple ice-cream..
Simple laugh/blush..
Simple present-giving to him..
Simple kiss..
Simple goodbye..
All within a simple 3-hour meeting..

May 14th

Today is a special day.. at least for me..
Today is my 3rd year knowing him.. and also our 101th day together..
I had planned to have a nice dinner with him today, but due to unforseen events, there are some changes to the programme..
If I were to say that I am not disappointed, I would be lying bcuz today is one of the rare days that I have set expectations..
Be Happy!! =)

我的爱情观

Jus came back from a long day of work at Istana Open House, but felt like bloggin this b4 i went to slp, and this blog may sound abit weird cuz i'm very sleepy oredi..

Me and my colleagues went for a gd meal after the event, and we were sharing some topics on love (I guessed tat was the most common topic to chat abt within young adults like us).. I wun touch on all the areas, mayb just a few, if not it would be a long story again.. There was one part where we were talkin abt R - there were a couple of negative comments abt him, but I felt tat on the overall, he's stil an "OK" guy.. Heard a different side of him apart from work, thou I duno how true was the information that he said.. He was sayin tat his gf complained tat he had not been spendin time with her lately, even since he got himself this job, my first reaction was, "wah..so demanding ar..?", bcuz I realised tat some gals are like tat.. haha.. Thou R can be very aggressive and direct at work, I could see tat he had decided tat his gf is the one for him, if not they wun go and apply for flat, isnt it..?

Whenever a grp of ppl gathered together, the tendency of them talkin abt bgr is rather high, as in sharin own stories/viewpoints of a bgr.. I tink gals are a little more chatty, so we will tend to like to share our stories, and I'm one of them too.. Hehe.. So wen A asked me abt my apple, I was jus sharin part of it, cuz it wil take a long time to say in details.. But I realised one ting, and pls see below..

I find it a pleasure to share my story of me and apple to others bcuz it was like a fairytale story happening in real life, but on the other hand, it became a feedback session for me wen they start to comment after hearin the whole story.. In one of my previous entries, I mentioned tat I do wish to have a guy who wil do tings tat other guys were doin, but IF the guy I chosen doesnt belong to tat type, does tat mean tat I should look for other guys..?

Some of my frens might have mistaken tat apple is a very wonderful guy upon seein my blog entries - someone who had done alot of tings for me, and probably the kind of bf tat everyone would like to have.. but the fact was he is jus a normal average guy, and there were times tat my fellow frens "seriously" doubted my choice, cuz I can be such a 大女人 at work, but wen it comes to such tings, how come I am like tat..?

To those who duno wat kind of person apple is, here is jus a brief description of him.. He is:
- abt my height (but taller than me)
- small to medium build (but he said he is gettin fatter)
- talks/walks/looks like an ah-beng (this is wat he told me back then, thus gd to use as description)
- doesnt like to shave much (thus may look more matured at times)
- homely (he likes to stay at hm most of the time)
- favorite pastime: sleepin
- "scary" temper & will use international sign language (especially when he's drivin)
- hv a versatile voice (huh..???)
- loves his 2 twin nephews (I love them too)
- hv beautiful long eyelashes (so pretty!!)
- behaves like a big kid (same as me)
- hv a gorgeous red Getz (tat's my favorite color)
- strong family bond
- traditional & devoted buddhist (I'm half past six)
- chin chin chai chai (easy going)
- (let me try to tink before addin on..)

And abt his "behavior" towards me..
- ability to crap his way thru n made me wan to vomit blood (extraordinary)
- never throw his temper on me (phew~ lucky)
- a good listening ear
- recognises and values me as part of his family
- available most of the time (to complain)
- appreciates and accepts my wilfulness/sillyness
- seems to know wat was I tinkin (telepathy..?)

The followin comments were mentioned by my frens, thus I felt tat I should not put them together with the above characteristics..
- "boring" (we seemed to hang ard the same places/area)
- "not very thoughtful" (why cant he come find me/fetch me)
- "not socialable" (my frens saw him by chance only)
- "unknown" (I dun hv a clear pic of him)
- "not normal" (we dun meet/talk over phone very often)
- "unromantic" (ME: is tat a must?? I dun find tat it's necessary, mayb a little wil do)
- "take me for granted" (ME: not tat serious ba??)

I admitted tat at times, I do like to have the same "privileges" as other gals, whereby they wil ask their bfs do this do tat, and their bfs did.. and mayb I do sound abit "grumbling" tat apple dun do those tings, but pls dun take it tat I'm serious, I'm jus sayin them in a jokingly manner.. I have my ways to divert my attention to such "temptations".. YES, it's true tat he dun do those tings, but we hv jus started, and who noes, he may do it in future..? Even if he doesnt do it, it's ok too.. Dun see tings too objectively, there are always more than one side to a story.. view it positively.. Jus like how I treated the meetings with him.. I treated them like my very first date with him every time, tat wil makes me have the thrillin n excited feelin.. I believe my frens would have been shakin ur head and say, "this gal hopeless case liao, so stubborn.." haha..

But that's my viewpoint on love.. =)