Friday, December 28, 2007

暗恋 vs. 喜欢 vs. 爱

3 different stages of love..

暗恋是。。。You get to know someone, and mayb as time goes by, you two became good frens, but you know nothin much about the other party, such as his habits/lifestyle/characteristics and so on.. You slowly developed a form of admiration towards him, bcuz you felt attracted to him (to his outer characteristics..?) 暗恋是最纯的一种,间中带有一点苦涩。。。

喜欢是。。。the next stage of admiration..? This is where you get to know more about the lifestyle/habits/hobbies/characteristics of the person bcuz he give you the chance to see those things you are unaware of all along.. The transition (from admiration) came when you realised that you are still attracted to him even after knowing wat kind of person he is.. 喜欢可以是甜蜜的,但也可以是痛苦的。。。

爱是。。。 probably the last stage.. this is a stage where you reli love someone without any valid reason.. 爱一个人是不需要任何理由的。。。

This post is sth significant to me as I've been thru the 1st stage many times, 2nd stage a few times, and as for the 3rd stage - I suppose soon-to-be..

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