sour.sweet.bitter.spicy

these are the tastes that most couples will go thru at different stages of their r'ships or lives..

sour represents the sourness such as jealousy or wen you are faced with a dilemma
sweet represents the sweetness and usually the honeymoon period of a r'ship
bitter represents the bitterness where you dun say/do wat u wan
spicy represents the quarrels and misunderstandings

was on the phone with apple tat day wen he mentioned these 4 tastes, where we are now at the sweet part bcuz we are still honeymoon period of the r'ship.. but he oso mentioned tat we will somehow go thru the rest of the tastes when the times comes, which i dun wish those times to come..

mayb i'm jus being too naive/simple-minded again..? bcuz no r'ship will always be sweet without any quarrels, even if got, it's jus one of the few of the super loving couples.. but i am stubborn and only believed in my own guts feelings at times.. as long as the sweetness is there, i will preserve and cherish the feeling for as long as i can, bcuz i wun know when will the other tastes start to kick in.. for every 1 day of sweetness, it may overrides months of sour/bitter/spicy.. happy oso one day, not happy oso one day, y not happy happy get over one day..? (am i too optimistic again..?)

suddenly reminded of the question tat apple always liked to ask me, "am i bored to be with..?" usually i wil say no or jus smile smile.. frankly speakin, sometimes yes la, esp wen there was a period where we always hang out at either jur pt or his hse.. tat was where i started to hint and suggest some other places ard his places cuz i noe he doesnt like to travel far, bcuz he doesnt like to like to go to places that are very crowded.. but recently i realised tat this qn doesnt apply to me much liao.. mayb i had oredi gotten use and adapted to this momentum gradually liao.. sometimes it doesnt matter tat much to where u go, wat reli matters is who are u being with.. jus like i am gettin so used to follow where apple is, jus like a superglue..

but.. i stil got some of the tings that i wana do or places tat i wana bring my bf to, and that was wat i decided long before i got into a r'ship.. but mostly romantic tings la, such as:
- bringing him for a full body and foot massage (done)
- go sit on singapore flyer (going soon)
- go to the rooftop of vivocity (beautiful xmas tree is there now!!)
- clarke quay at nite (wonderful and romantic scenery)
- goin to orchard to see the xmas lightup
- a nite's out to see the stars and moon
- enjoyin the breeze at esplanade/merlion
and more.. will add on wen i remember..