Aloy's grandma has just passed away, and I got to know abt this news was when I logged into Facebook, and saw the msg that he had displayed on his page: "Aloysius Yeo is asking everyone to give a little prayer for his grandmother who passed away on 13 Apr 08 at around 3 plus in the morning!!"
He asked me out for dinner on the day b4 his bday, and I somehow guessed that something was wrong wen I heard his voice and also bcuz he would call me like this if he is not feeling down.. On our way to our dinner, I got to know abt the hospitalisation of his grandma and the stories abt his family.. He was kinda indecisive on whether to pay a visit to his grandma as he was rather pissed off by the words of wat his relatives had said, but I told him to go visit her b4 he reli regrets it - bcuz I had my regrets for not being able to have a last look of my grandma b4 she breathed her last 8 yrs ago.. Thou upset, I din reli feel the pain and regretful back then (probably I'm stil young..?), but the feeling of regret jus came out suddenly wen I heard the grandma of one of my ex-staff had passed away.. It jus bring back alot of memories and mayb I had grew up, so I noe how it reli feels.. from tat day onwards, I told myself I have to cherish the ppl ard me, esp those I reli cared and loved, so tat I wun have any regrets.. Though I duno hv I been doin wat I had said, but I'm tryin my best to conserve any bits and pieces of beautiful memories that I am having..
Was passin by Times Bookshop at PS tat day, and happened to see a book talkin abt wat wil you do if you are left with 1 hour to live.. The book was compiled by an author's wife whose husband had passed away suddenly, and b4 that he had written a short note abt wat are the tings that he wil do if he is left with 1 hour to live.. I din manage to read finish the book, but it somehow inspires me to tink wat would I do if the same situation was to happen to me..?
Jus like my blog title says - Life is so unpredictable.. You wouldn't noe wat would happen the next second, minute or day.. thus I always like to say, 开心是一天,不开心也是一天,何不开开心心地过每一天? Live life to your fullest.. I like to fantacise alot or rather I watched too much of drama serials whereby the ppl in the drama lost their memories or gone missing suddenly.. If ever one day I din lose my memory, I hope someone would tell me that I have this blog or notes in my hp, which I noted down alot of tings that happened during these few years of my life.. and if I am only left with 1 hour to live, I would choose to spend it with apple - someone whom I reli cherished now.. tellin him the tings tat I nv been able to tell him, and many other tings tat I cant tink of now.. at the same time, msg my friends and tell them how much I thanked them and loved them in my growing up process.. and also my gratitude to my parents and bro..
I seemed to be too serious liao.. but who noes wat would happen, isnt it..? good to hv a "guideline" to see if tings reli happen, if not jus count my blessings everyday and share my happiness to the ppl beside me..
To all ppl out there.. must be happy always ar..!!
Monday, April 14, 2008
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absolutely! live life to the full like there's no tomorrow, but plan like there is a hundred years to go...
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