These two weeks had proven to be very "eventful" cuz as usual, many expected n unexpected things happened.. Let me try to recount as many as I can...
1. A gd fren of mine wanted to quit from his job cuz he is reli too stressed up from his work (we can oso see too).. But there are many things tat he has to take into consideration, thus till now his mind stil cant settle down on which is the best option for him.. As a fren, wat i can only do is try to by with his side as much as possible cuz fr the way he told me, I'm reli afraid n worried tat he will go crazy one day.. Try to cheer him up, crap with him, motivate him, help him n counsel him.. Let him realise tat life isnt tat bad.. Hehe..
2. Two new colleagues came to my branch this week.. One pretty n demure chief cashier n an intelligent lookin 02.. Stil duno them tat well yet, so cant reli say much abt them.. But hope tat this 02 will be a gd one, jus like our previous one lor.. Haha.. (Heard tat she is very strict... oOpS, I so blur, die liao lor...)
3. My fren intro a new (?) fren to me last fri.. Cant say new la, cuz I oredi knew him when I was in sec 1, he was a prefect then too, jus tat we din talk much n he was oredi sec 4 liao, so we somehow din know each other lor.. My fren "strongly" recommend him.. Upon seein, can see he's quite a nice chap, jus tat mayb abit uncomfortable cuz he stil duno me tat well ba.. Erm.. jus like wat my fren said, even there's no special progress in the future, at least stil can become frens ma... I totally agree... hahaha...
...... Suddenly felt dead tired... mayb stil not used to this mth schedule ba.. so many morning shifts, den stil got the lelong sales.. dying soon liao la.. Haha.. I wan to have a nice n peaceful break too, jus like my fren had said.. Have not been seein life outside for sooo long... When can I do tat... Sleep... ZzZzZz...
Sunday, December 18, 2005
Sunday, December 11, 2005
Handwriting Analysis - Quite true..
For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer's attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space. If the inputted data was correct San has left lots of white space on the all four borders of the paper. San fills up just the center area of the page. If this is true, then San has a particular shyness toward people and a fear of moving too fast in any direction. In some cultures, respecting people, rules, and adhering to protocol are ways of life. The right side of the page represents the future and the left side represents the past. San seems a bit stuck in the middle, afraid to take action. San seems to have a fear of looking bad or of crossing boundries. It will be easy to work with San on a team, because San will usually follow the rules. However, this desire to respect the boundries can often be construed as a lack of confidence and people will walk over San if she is not careful.
San is selective when picking friends. She does not trust everyone. She has a select group of people that are truly close to her, usually two or three. She is careful when choosing her inner circle of friends.
San is a practical person whose goals are planned, practical, and down to earth. This is typical of people with normal healthy self-esteem. She needs to visualize the end of a project before she starts. she finds joy in anticipation and planning. Notice that I said she plans everything she is going to do, that doesn't necessarily mean things go as planned. San basically feels good about herself. She has a positive self-esteem which contributes to her success. She feels she has the ability to achieve anything she sets her mind to. However, she sets her goals using practicality-- not too "out of reach". She has enough self-confidence to leave a bad situation, yet, she will not take great risks, as they relate to her goals. A good esteem is one key to a happy life. Although there is room for improvement in the confidence catagery, her self-perception is better than average.
In reference to San's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When San slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project. She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. San can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.
San will be candid and direct when expressing her opinion. She will tell them what she thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want her opinion, don't ask for it!
San will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. San believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. She has a lot of pride.
San uses judgment to make decisions. She is ruled by her head, not her heart. She is a cool, collected person who is usually unexpressive emotionally. Some may see her as unemotional. She does have emotions but has no need to express them. She is withdrawn into herself and enjoys being alone. The circumstances when San does express emotions include: extreme anger, extreme passion, and tremendous stress. If someone gets her mad enough to tell her off, she will not be sorry about it later. She puts a mark in her mind when someone angers her. She keeps track of these marks and when she hits that last mark she will let them know they have gone too far. She is ruled somewhat by self-interest. All her conclusions are made without outside emotional influence. She is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, she has poise. San will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. She would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. In a relationship, she will show her love by the things she does rather than by the things she says. Saying "I love you" is not a needed routine because she feels her mate should already know. The only exception to this is if she has logically concluded that it is best for her mate to hear her express her love verbally. San is not subject to emotional appeals. If someone is selling a product to her, they will need to present only the facts. They should present them from a standpoint of her sound judgment. She will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. She will meet emergencies without getting hysterical and she will always ask "Is this best for me?"
People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, San doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.
San is selective when picking friends. She does not trust everyone. She has a select group of people that are truly close to her, usually two or three. She is careful when choosing her inner circle of friends.
San is a practical person whose goals are planned, practical, and down to earth. This is typical of people with normal healthy self-esteem. She needs to visualize the end of a project before she starts. she finds joy in anticipation and planning. Notice that I said she plans everything she is going to do, that doesn't necessarily mean things go as planned. San basically feels good about herself. She has a positive self-esteem which contributes to her success. She feels she has the ability to achieve anything she sets her mind to. However, she sets her goals using practicality-- not too "out of reach". She has enough self-confidence to leave a bad situation, yet, she will not take great risks, as they relate to her goals. A good esteem is one key to a happy life. Although there is room for improvement in the confidence catagery, her self-perception is better than average.
In reference to San's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When San slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project. She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. San can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.
San will be candid and direct when expressing her opinion. She will tell them what she thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want her opinion, don't ask for it!
San will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. San believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. She has a lot of pride.
San uses judgment to make decisions. She is ruled by her head, not her heart. She is a cool, collected person who is usually unexpressive emotionally. Some may see her as unemotional. She does have emotions but has no need to express them. She is withdrawn into herself and enjoys being alone. The circumstances when San does express emotions include: extreme anger, extreme passion, and tremendous stress. If someone gets her mad enough to tell her off, she will not be sorry about it later. She puts a mark in her mind when someone angers her. She keeps track of these marks and when she hits that last mark she will let them know they have gone too far. She is ruled somewhat by self-interest. All her conclusions are made without outside emotional influence. She is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, she has poise. San will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. She would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. In a relationship, she will show her love by the things she does rather than by the things she says. Saying "I love you" is not a needed routine because she feels her mate should already know. The only exception to this is if she has logically concluded that it is best for her mate to hear her express her love verbally. San is not subject to emotional appeals. If someone is selling a product to her, they will need to present only the facts. They should present them from a standpoint of her sound judgment. She will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. She will meet emergencies without getting hysterical and she will always ask "Is this best for me?"
People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, San doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.
Saturday, December 03, 2005
sOoO lOnG~
Haiz~ Today wun be able to meet my best fren again cuz she got sth on at e very last min.. It has been soooooo long since I last saw her.. I guessed after I joined fp, only managed to meet her for a few times.. Sad ar~ There's so much things tat I wana tell her, as well as hear her gossips.. Hahaha..
Dead tired fr work, but dun think it's bcuz of work only.. It's mentally tired tat caused physical tiredness ba.. Sianz ar~ How I wish I can take a long break.. Tat 3 days MC tat I had for last time made me have time to think abt alot of things.. n mayb tat's where n when I changed my perspective n perception abt alot of things.. Those 3 days reli make me think --- abt work, family & friends.. Work was my priority when I first joined fp till e day I gotten e MC, but durin e period tat I was sick, I discovered at e very end of e day, wat brings u e greatest satisfaction is ur friends, not ur work.. Wat I reli do is to cherish e friends ard me, who r alive n kickin, I dun wan to wait till e day tat they leave me, n I....? Life is so unpredictable, though u may meet many ppl along ur journey of life, but they will leave an inerasable footprint in it.. Mayb u see them today, but at any pt of time they may jus leave u suddenly..
Tat's when I started to view friends as my greatest priority again jus like e days where I haven started workin, bcuz without them, I wun be wat I am today.. Sth tat happened in e past made me realised tat fame, wealth n status will not make me a happy person, but simplicity will, a state of life tat I had been doin so after my darkest period.. "See no evil, Hear no evil, Speak no evil".. But it's strange tat even though u craved for a simple life, ppl ard u will stil tat u r pretending or jus say say only, how can a person be simple in such a realistic society? Haha.. If they have been thru wat I went thru, mayb they'll be able to understand y I felt tat..
This reminded me of yest mtg with Mr. Tey n fellow TLs, he mentioned sth like "手心是肉，手背也是肉".. No matter which side we pinch, we will stil feel e pain.. He wanted us to work together as a team, irregardless to whether we like each other anot (??), cuz our common goal is to push up e branch profit n increase sales.. Basically I think he can see tat there r some form of politics tat is existin in the branch now, but wat can he do? There's so much of things tat he need to handle, he cant be possibly tryin to solve such politics every now n den.. For me, probably I got e same mindset as Jiawen, or bcuz I saw too many things tat happened ard me, I kind of have a heck care attitude liao.. I hate politics, n it'll be best I dun get involved in it at all.. As usual, one ear in, one ear out after hearing anythin.. Aiya, they wana fight, go n fight la, jus keep me out of it.. Let me be an ordinary person n happily finish my 2 yr promise in fp tat I had set for myself b4 movin on to another stage of my life.. Haha..
Sayin abt my 2 yr promise, I wondered will I be able to keep my promise till e end of it anot? I r'bered tat when I went for e fp interview so long ago, they asked me how long do I wish to climb up to e next level? I said 2 yrs, cuz I reli duno how will fp be like, n I reli jus wan to do sth different fr wat I studied, but in the end, I ended up doin sth similar, sth related to marketing, sth I reli dun like to do.. If I have a choice, how I wished tat I'm not e marketer, so tat I can reli concentrate on other things, like reli get to noe more abt Haba & GMS things, n oso I need not have to eat up my own personal time doin e things at home.. But now, I lost interest in practically anythin.. I regretted for not concentratin in Haba n GMS in the first place, now tat I lost heart in it.. The moment I wan to get involved, I'll be called upon to do other things.. n when I go n spend my time doin other things, den I get nagged for not neglectin Haba n not knowin GMS.. If I was the me 3 mths ago, mayb I'll stil go an extra mile to do things, but now, everything reli doesnt matter to me anymore, I jus wan to do wat I should do n spend my time on something worthwhile (not tat I'm sayin tat work doesnt worth my time to do)..
Some of them said tat how can I be tat heck care n unfeeling? Not tat I'm unfeelin, jus tat this series of events made me realised alot of things n indirectly forced to grow up rapidly again.. Mayb I'm not cut out for this line ba, I'm jus too soft n I dun wish to be firm.. Wat someone say some days ago left me thinkin, tat I'm a gd listener, n oso a person to vent ur frustrations n anger on, cuz I always seemed to have no temper at all.. n if I'm not in this line, mayb I can be a counsellor/volunteer or sth like tat ba.. Haha.. I'm not tat gd as ppl think la, I oso got my own temper too, jus tat most of them din get to see it only.. Eh, I dun like ppl to beat ard e bush or "e boy who cried wolf" type, especially when I'm helpin someone.. I stil r'bered tat I got so fed up at a fren 2 consecutive days over sth, but actually it was my fault la.. My anger will nv exceed 20 mins wan la, but sometimes I'll keep gloatin over it..
Seemed like this is a very long blog, jus like my title... Haha.. Some philosophies of mine tat I had developed over e past 2 mths (by e way, I like to develop alot of San's philosophies)..
18 Oct: "Carryin a torch is nth; Swithin it on is sth; Turnin it off is endin"
23 Oct: "Three things I can't live without - Friends, Colors & Music.. The rest I can forgo.."
26 Nov: "Life isnt perfect, so grab hold of every single day tat u can have with e ppl ard u, cuz who noes, they might leave u anytime.."
2 Dec: "In life, always r'ber e beautiful things tat u had done, e lovely frens tat u had made, e wonderful things tat u had said -- which might have oredi changed a person's life.. Always look forward to wat u can do n not keep on holdin to e regrets tat u had.."
"Always Look on e Bright Side of Life" -- like wat me n my grp of frens had always did.. *Smile*
Dead tired fr work, but dun think it's bcuz of work only.. It's mentally tired tat caused physical tiredness ba.. Sianz ar~ How I wish I can take a long break.. Tat 3 days MC tat I had for last time made me have time to think abt alot of things.. n mayb tat's where n when I changed my perspective n perception abt alot of things.. Those 3 days reli make me think --- abt work, family & friends.. Work was my priority when I first joined fp till e day I gotten e MC, but durin e period tat I was sick, I discovered at e very end of e day, wat brings u e greatest satisfaction is ur friends, not ur work.. Wat I reli do is to cherish e friends ard me, who r alive n kickin, I dun wan to wait till e day tat they leave me, n I....? Life is so unpredictable, though u may meet many ppl along ur journey of life, but they will leave an inerasable footprint in it.. Mayb u see them today, but at any pt of time they may jus leave u suddenly..
Tat's when I started to view friends as my greatest priority again jus like e days where I haven started workin, bcuz without them, I wun be wat I am today.. Sth tat happened in e past made me realised tat fame, wealth n status will not make me a happy person, but simplicity will, a state of life tat I had been doin so after my darkest period.. "See no evil, Hear no evil, Speak no evil".. But it's strange tat even though u craved for a simple life, ppl ard u will stil tat u r pretending or jus say say only, how can a person be simple in such a realistic society? Haha.. If they have been thru wat I went thru, mayb they'll be able to understand y I felt tat..
This reminded me of yest mtg with Mr. Tey n fellow TLs, he mentioned sth like "手心是肉，手背也是肉".. No matter which side we pinch, we will stil feel e pain.. He wanted us to work together as a team, irregardless to whether we like each other anot (??), cuz our common goal is to push up e branch profit n increase sales.. Basically I think he can see tat there r some form of politics tat is existin in the branch now, but wat can he do? There's so much of things tat he need to handle, he cant be possibly tryin to solve such politics every now n den.. For me, probably I got e same mindset as Jiawen, or bcuz I saw too many things tat happened ard me, I kind of have a heck care attitude liao.. I hate politics, n it'll be best I dun get involved in it at all.. As usual, one ear in, one ear out after hearing anythin.. Aiya, they wana fight, go n fight la, jus keep me out of it.. Let me be an ordinary person n happily finish my 2 yr promise in fp tat I had set for myself b4 movin on to another stage of my life.. Haha..
Sayin abt my 2 yr promise, I wondered will I be able to keep my promise till e end of it anot? I r'bered tat when I went for e fp interview so long ago, they asked me how long do I wish to climb up to e next level? I said 2 yrs, cuz I reli duno how will fp be like, n I reli jus wan to do sth different fr wat I studied, but in the end, I ended up doin sth similar, sth related to marketing, sth I reli dun like to do.. If I have a choice, how I wished tat I'm not e marketer, so tat I can reli concentrate on other things, like reli get to noe more abt Haba & GMS things, n oso I need not have to eat up my own personal time doin e things at home.. But now, I lost interest in practically anythin.. I regretted for not concentratin in Haba n GMS in the first place, now tat I lost heart in it.. The moment I wan to get involved, I'll be called upon to do other things.. n when I go n spend my time doin other things, den I get nagged for not neglectin Haba n not knowin GMS.. If I was the me 3 mths ago, mayb I'll stil go an extra mile to do things, but now, everything reli doesnt matter to me anymore, I jus wan to do wat I should do n spend my time on something worthwhile (not tat I'm sayin tat work doesnt worth my time to do)..
Some of them said tat how can I be tat heck care n unfeeling? Not tat I'm unfeelin, jus tat this series of events made me realised alot of things n indirectly forced to grow up rapidly again.. Mayb I'm not cut out for this line ba, I'm jus too soft n I dun wish to be firm.. Wat someone say some days ago left me thinkin, tat I'm a gd listener, n oso a person to vent ur frustrations n anger on, cuz I always seemed to have no temper at all.. n if I'm not in this line, mayb I can be a counsellor/volunteer or sth like tat ba.. Haha.. I'm not tat gd as ppl think la, I oso got my own temper too, jus tat most of them din get to see it only.. Eh, I dun like ppl to beat ard e bush or "e boy who cried wolf" type, especially when I'm helpin someone.. I stil r'bered tat I got so fed up at a fren 2 consecutive days over sth, but actually it was my fault la.. My anger will nv exceed 20 mins wan la, but sometimes I'll keep gloatin over it..
Seemed like this is a very long blog, jus like my title... Haha.. Some philosophies of mine tat I had developed over e past 2 mths (by e way, I like to develop alot of San's philosophies)..
18 Oct: "Carryin a torch is nth; Swithin it on is sth; Turnin it off is endin"
23 Oct: "Three things I can't live without - Friends, Colors & Music.. The rest I can forgo.."
26 Nov: "Life isnt perfect, so grab hold of every single day tat u can have with e ppl ard u, cuz who noes, they might leave u anytime.."
2 Dec: "In life, always r'ber e beautiful things tat u had done, e lovely frens tat u had made, e wonderful things tat u had said -- which might have oredi changed a person's life.. Always look forward to wat u can do n not keep on holdin to e regrets tat u had.."
"Always Look on e Bright Side of Life" -- like wat me n my grp of frens had always did.. *Smile*
Tuesday, November 22, 2005
Rainy Day~
It is raining quite heavily outside now, and the temperature is reli freezing cold.. Stupid renovation downstairs woke me up early in the morn.. How I wish I could sleep longer.. Hahaha.. Been quite some time that I came here to write something.. Nothin much to update leh.. As usual, let me split into the different categories..
Friendship: Met up with one of my sec sch frens.. Found tat it had been a long time since I go to Orchard n walk liao.. Must find chances to go out n see see look look more..
Work: Ok la.. Nth much to say leh.. Stil cant find the kick to work hard.. Must be stil troubling over personal prob ba.. Let me have some time to get over it first..
Family: Seemed like the condition of my grandma is gettin worse.. It only made us more woried abt her cuz she reli duno wat is she doin liao.. (dementia)
Love: ??? My Sec Sch fren is thinkin of recommending a guy to me that she thinks is my cup of tea.. Duno? See how first lor.. If got interest, den talk abt it.. If no interest, can be frens too..
Money: Broke liao.. Reli broke.. Wonder how do I survive till the next payday..
Health: Cough, flu, cold.. The 3 common bugs tat liked to look for me.. But recently not very free to fight them leh.. Wait till I free, den I shall handle them.. Haha
Gotta go n have my "brunch", before getting ready to go to FPTI for meeting.. *finally can see my training mates again n some handsome guys* Hahaha.. =)
Friendship: Met up with one of my sec sch frens.. Found tat it had been a long time since I go to Orchard n walk liao.. Must find chances to go out n see see look look more..
Work: Ok la.. Nth much to say leh.. Stil cant find the kick to work hard.. Must be stil troubling over personal prob ba.. Let me have some time to get over it first..
Family: Seemed like the condition of my grandma is gettin worse.. It only made us more woried abt her cuz she reli duno wat is she doin liao.. (dementia)
Love: ??? My Sec Sch fren is thinkin of recommending a guy to me that she thinks is my cup of tea.. Duno? See how first lor.. If got interest, den talk abt it.. If no interest, can be frens too..
Money: Broke liao.. Reli broke.. Wonder how do I survive till the next payday..
Health: Cough, flu, cold.. The 3 common bugs tat liked to look for me.. But recently not very free to fight them leh.. Wait till I free, den I shall handle them.. Haha
Gotta go n have my "brunch", before getting ready to go to FPTI for meeting.. *finally can see my training mates again n some handsome guys* Hahaha.. =)
Thursday, November 17, 2005
Loving Someone...
Loving Someone...
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
Once you accept someone for who and what they really are, they will surprise you by being better than you ever expected. LOVE is loving/accepting a person with all his/her strength and weaknesses.
Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.
When two friends fall in love they learn they are meant for each other. When they fall out of love they realize they want to keep each other forever.
Find time to realize that there is one person who meant so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought nothing to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever.
A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like your circle of friends. But the treasure inside, for you to see, is the treasure of friendship you've given to me.
Letting go has never been easy and holding on can be as difficult. Yet strengths measured not by holding on but by letting go.
True LOVE doesn't have a happy ending, that's because true love doesn't have an ending.
Men vs. women: Men would rather sacrifice love to conquer the world. Women would rather give up the world just to be with someone worth the sacrifice.
Decision should not be the choice of your heart or mind but sensible balancing of both.
Some thoughts are better left unsaid, some feelings are better left kept to yourself, but love has its way of expressing itself despite the silence.
The happier the memory, the deeper it hurts.
There are so many stars in the sky but only some are radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which is willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remained elsewhere.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else... but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.
- Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
Once you accept someone for who and what they really are, they will surprise you by being better than you ever expected. LOVE is loving/accepting a person with all his/her strength and weaknesses.
Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.
When two friends fall in love they learn they are meant for each other. When they fall out of love they realize they want to keep each other forever.
Find time to realize that there is one person who meant so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought nothing to you.
Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever.
A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like your circle of friends. But the treasure inside, for you to see, is the treasure of friendship you've given to me.
Letting go has never been easy and holding on can be as difficult. Yet strengths measured not by holding on but by letting go.
True LOVE doesn't have a happy ending, that's because true love doesn't have an ending.
Men vs. women: Men would rather sacrifice love to conquer the world. Women would rather give up the world just to be with someone worth the sacrifice.
Decision should not be the choice of your heart or mind but sensible balancing of both.
Some thoughts are better left unsaid, some feelings are better left kept to yourself, but love has its way of expressing itself despite the silence.
The happier the memory, the deeper it hurts.
There are so many stars in the sky but only some are radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which is willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remained elsewhere.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else... but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.
- Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)
Wednesday, November 09, 2005
love.dislike.hate
I wrote this blog bcuz this is wat I'm seein now.. Sad.. Something I reli dun wan to see.. Forget it la.. Let's jus a step at a time.. Those who required some reflection, pls do so.. n the rest? I duno.. Jus close two eyes ba.. Haha.. I'm tired, thus no mood to write a complete one..
Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Pissed off~
Today is a damn pissed off day.. Sianz~ All my fault again, rite?
Morn: Busy with the new place for 3 days offer/Starbuy for GMS items n the x'mas tree till I got no time to "chup" my Haba at all, lucky stil got Rosnah there.. (duno lucky anot)..
Noon: Den today is Hari Raya's Eve, all Muslim staffs are allowed to go back at 12pm.. I forgot all abt it n only managed to inform Rosnah at 1pm.. She asked me for the unapproved leave form yest n tore it away.. Den she duno wat la, say no need n lots of ridiculous things out.. n wat worse is she shouted at Bee Kim n told her to shut up, indirectly said tat BK is e one who is badmouthing her.. She shouted back at me in front of so many ppl in the office when I called Cheryl to inform her abt this.. When Cheryl came at 2pm, we asked her in into Tey's office, she complained alot of things like we dun let her do this, we dun let her do tat, like tat time she wanted to help me by writing the stocks tat r empty, so tat her lane wun look empty, den I told her not to..(cuz if she take time to write, den other things no nd to do liao la?) n tat time she complained tat we gave her too much things to do, she cant manage.. She said she din have much education, den her standard of English is very lousy, we looked down on her, she wan to learn n we dun let her learn.. All the rubbish.. We asked her to go home cuz she can, den she said no need, another 3 hrs only.. Den started cryin again... Super drama queen, even I cant fight.. Everytime act pitiful to gain sympathy.. If like tat she can cry cry cry, den do I have to jump down?
Late noon: I went for a late lunch cuz I was busy with the things again, so Bee Kim n Jiawen went w/o me.. Wen they called me, they oredi almost finished.. Den Aloysius smsed me, so I had a long chat with him, he is stil so pessimistic.. Duno wat to say to him.. "Always look on the bright side of life" doesnt apply to him..
I came back early to see wat can I help, but again, kena asked to do the same old things tat I did in the mornin n my lelong outside.. Tey kept askin me to find ppl to tidy up here n there, but I only got 2 staffs, Bee Kim & Harry.. Den they need to help to pull the gls rollcages ma.. Lucky Harry willin to help me to do here n there abit b4 goin back to help the gls.. Den the lelong is damn messy even after I asked Kat 2 to do, so I went down to see anyone can help, I saw most of them in store, n since Tey did say tat ask a gal to come n arrange, so I'm thinkin of askin Bee Kim to do since it's abt time tat I can go.. Den the replies tat she gave was like, " I dun like to do the lelong outside", den she told me one thing, "You go n do la".. I super pissed off liao lor, I jus said, " ok lor, I go n do", den I super bo song n kicked the store door.. If I were to quarrel with her, I sure at the losing end, must see she got how many ppl support her leh.. Think Kok Thiam & Harry can see tat I'm reli pissed off.. Harry came up to the lelong later n see wat can he help.. At least he's willin to help n got the initiative.. So I liked to hang ard with him & Zhilong.. They r a gd bunch of workers & frens..
Later in the evening, Kok Thiam smsed me to ask me abt the lelong, I told him settled liao la.. He said: "ok one, always r'ber tat there r frens in BM.." These words used to refer a big grp of us, now it only referred to a smaller grp n new ppl.. I told him tat,"of cuz, if not, I would have taken my bag n jus walk out of the branch".. Since tat matter happened, it reli made some of us have some thots, n we did see thru lots of things.. Tat's y everyday I go branch n see how of them, it made me reminded of some unhappy things, but when I see another grp of ppl, u'll be able to see a 360 degree change.. Very obvious lor..
Haiz~ y does things turned out this way? Sianz~
Nvm.. Always look on the bright side of life... I stil got another bunch of frens ard me.. Haha..
Morn: Busy with the new place for 3 days offer/Starbuy for GMS items n the x'mas tree till I got no time to "chup" my Haba at all, lucky stil got Rosnah there.. (duno lucky anot)..
Noon: Den today is Hari Raya's Eve, all Muslim staffs are allowed to go back at 12pm.. I forgot all abt it n only managed to inform Rosnah at 1pm.. She asked me for the unapproved leave form yest n tore it away.. Den she duno wat la, say no need n lots of ridiculous things out.. n wat worse is she shouted at Bee Kim n told her to shut up, indirectly said tat BK is e one who is badmouthing her.. She shouted back at me in front of so many ppl in the office when I called Cheryl to inform her abt this.. When Cheryl came at 2pm, we asked her in into Tey's office, she complained alot of things like we dun let her do this, we dun let her do tat, like tat time she wanted to help me by writing the stocks tat r empty, so tat her lane wun look empty, den I told her not to..(cuz if she take time to write, den other things no nd to do liao la?) n tat time she complained tat we gave her too much things to do, she cant manage.. She said she din have much education, den her standard of English is very lousy, we looked down on her, she wan to learn n we dun let her learn.. All the rubbish.. We asked her to go home cuz she can, den she said no need, another 3 hrs only.. Den started cryin again... Super drama queen, even I cant fight.. Everytime act pitiful to gain sympathy.. If like tat she can cry cry cry, den do I have to jump down?
Late noon: I went for a late lunch cuz I was busy with the things again, so Bee Kim n Jiawen went w/o me.. Wen they called me, they oredi almost finished.. Den Aloysius smsed me, so I had a long chat with him, he is stil so pessimistic.. Duno wat to say to him.. "Always look on the bright side of life" doesnt apply to him..
I came back early to see wat can I help, but again, kena asked to do the same old things tat I did in the mornin n my lelong outside.. Tey kept askin me to find ppl to tidy up here n there, but I only got 2 staffs, Bee Kim & Harry.. Den they need to help to pull the gls rollcages ma.. Lucky Harry willin to help me to do here n there abit b4 goin back to help the gls.. Den the lelong is damn messy even after I asked Kat 2 to do, so I went down to see anyone can help, I saw most of them in store, n since Tey did say tat ask a gal to come n arrange, so I'm thinkin of askin Bee Kim to do since it's abt time tat I can go.. Den the replies tat she gave was like, " I dun like to do the lelong outside", den she told me one thing, "You go n do la".. I super pissed off liao lor, I jus said, " ok lor, I go n do", den I super bo song n kicked the store door.. If I were to quarrel with her, I sure at the losing end, must see she got how many ppl support her leh.. Think Kok Thiam & Harry can see tat I'm reli pissed off.. Harry came up to the lelong later n see wat can he help.. At least he's willin to help n got the initiative.. So I liked to hang ard with him & Zhilong.. They r a gd bunch of workers & frens..
Later in the evening, Kok Thiam smsed me to ask me abt the lelong, I told him settled liao la.. He said: "ok one, always r'ber tat there r frens in BM.." These words used to refer a big grp of us, now it only referred to a smaller grp n new ppl.. I told him tat,"of cuz, if not, I would have taken my bag n jus walk out of the branch".. Since tat matter happened, it reli made some of us have some thots, n we did see thru lots of things.. Tat's y everyday I go branch n see how of them, it made me reminded of some unhappy things, but when I see another grp of ppl, u'll be able to see a 360 degree change.. Very obvious lor..
Haiz~ y does things turned out this way? Sianz~
Nvm.. Always look on the bright side of life... I stil got another bunch of frens ard me.. Haha..
Tuesday, November 01, 2005
Numbed...
Jus finished a long chat with Kok Thiam, felt somehow beta after expressin my tots n feelings out to him.. Kok Thiam very funny, oways think tat I very stressed over work or everything.. Haha.. Aiya, somethin so serious as depression I can overcome liao, this one small case la.. If I'm very stressed, I'll sound very despo.. Tat's me..
Some things tat happened ard me made me felt numbed abt some things.. So tat's y now I jus concentrate on doin/finishin wat I supposed to do n not get involved in other things unnecessarily, (so tat I wun get stabbed unneccesarily too) n oso to watch out for my butt.. When I'm numbed over some things, this is my reaction towards them.. But some things I wun get numbed is being the kpo (hahaha), I'll help those ppl that deserved my help only, cuz think I'm too gd liao, gd to take advantage of.. Must noe how to think at times liao..
This wk had been quite a fun wk cuz got Harry, Zhilong they all workin together.. Very fun & "adventurous" cuz it had been a long time since I met ppl so ON as them, somehow motivated me to work too.. Clearing the rollcages/goods within a specific timing, talkin craps n laughin till stomach almost cramped.. Must cherish this kind of wonderful moments cuz we always say "Keep in touch", but in the end we, ourselves noe it best tat we will seldom keep in touch.. "This is life, dun ever think abt how life will be in future, but always r'ber at this moment of life, we have met someone or did something memorable tat will stay in our memory forever, no matter where we go in future..." Thus I treated friendship as my No.1 in my list, I can do anythin for the sake of friendship, but tat reli have to depends on who cuz some ppl r jus makin use of us only.. Frankly speakin, till date, I only almost did everything for them towards 3 - 4 ppl, cuz they reli deserved it, but if they r makin use of me, den jus too bad lor, cuz it takes alot of trust & mutual understanding to build a firm & sturdy friendship, if they wan to destroy it, let it be lor.. I had seen so much of such cases, so I can say I'm numbed of it liao.. Haha.. Tat's me... Lots of philosophies of mine.. I can come up with plenty of quotes everyday..
Some things tat happened ard me made me felt numbed abt some things.. So tat's y now I jus concentrate on doin/finishin wat I supposed to do n not get involved in other things unnecessarily, (so tat I wun get stabbed unneccesarily too) n oso to watch out for my butt.. When I'm numbed over some things, this is my reaction towards them.. But some things I wun get numbed is being the kpo (hahaha), I'll help those ppl that deserved my help only, cuz think I'm too gd liao, gd to take advantage of.. Must noe how to think at times liao..
This wk had been quite a fun wk cuz got Harry, Zhilong they all workin together.. Very fun & "adventurous" cuz it had been a long time since I met ppl so ON as them, somehow motivated me to work too.. Clearing the rollcages/goods within a specific timing, talkin craps n laughin till stomach almost cramped.. Must cherish this kind of wonderful moments cuz we always say "Keep in touch", but in the end we, ourselves noe it best tat we will seldom keep in touch.. "This is life, dun ever think abt how life will be in future, but always r'ber at this moment of life, we have met someone or did something memorable tat will stay in our memory forever, no matter where we go in future..." Thus I treated friendship as my No.1 in my list, I can do anythin for the sake of friendship, but tat reli have to depends on who cuz some ppl r jus makin use of us only.. Frankly speakin, till date, I only almost did everything for them towards 3 - 4 ppl, cuz they reli deserved it, but if they r makin use of me, den jus too bad lor, cuz it takes alot of trust & mutual understanding to build a firm & sturdy friendship, if they wan to destroy it, let it be lor.. I had seen so much of such cases, so I can say I'm numbed of it liao.. Haha.. Tat's me... Lots of philosophies of mine.. I can come up with plenty of quotes everyday..
Sunday, October 30, 2005
有故事的人
有故事的人
作词：姚若龙 作曲：潘协庆
作词：姚若龙 作曲：潘协庆
走着 忍着 醒着 想着 看爱情悄悄近了
冷的 暖的 甜的 苦的 在心里缠绕成河
曲折的心情有人懂 怎么能不感动
几乎忘了昨日的种种 开始又敢做梦
我决定不躲了 你决定不怕了
我们决定了让爱像绿草原滋长着
天地辽阔相遇多难得
都是有故事的人才听懂心里的歌
我决定不躲了 你决定不怕了
就算下一秒坎坷这一秒是快乐的
曾经交心就非常值得
我要专注爱你不想别的没有忐忑
Thursday, October 27, 2005
Yesterday.Today.Tomorrow
Think I only din update my blog for a few days only, but how cum it seemed so long to me? Mayb been too busy lately till I duno differentiate long and short.. Haha.. It's always sunshine after the rain, I suppose? Haha.. Some air had been cleared n I felt so relieved... Cuz frenship is the No. 1 thing that in my list, followed by family, den work.. If I can sometimes heck care abt my family matters, den u can imagined how heck care I can be towards work.. Jus numbed of it liao.. Haha...
Let me recall anything happened recently anot....
Friendship: No comments.. Jus somehow back to normal for my side la...
Work: can say fun & boring... Fun as in I have gotten a very very gd boy as my staff... n yest is the first time after so long tat I got so much fun clearing GLS stocks.. But today cant play much due to my atrium sales.. Though gd experience, but been busy fr morn till nite.. nearly cant go home.. haha.. Must cherish the days tat we have fun together n not the @#$%^&*() work tat I gotten there..
Family: Nothing much either..
Love: Empty as usual
Money: Goin poorer everyday..
Basically, tat's all.. Wait for my next blog lor.. Haha
Let me recall anything happened recently anot....
Friendship: No comments.. Jus somehow back to normal for my side la...
Work: can say fun & boring... Fun as in I have gotten a very very gd boy as my staff... n yest is the first time after so long tat I got so much fun clearing GLS stocks.. But today cant play much due to my atrium sales.. Though gd experience, but been busy fr morn till nite.. nearly cant go home.. haha.. Must cherish the days tat we have fun together n not the @#$%^&*() work tat I gotten there..
Family: Nothing much either..
Love: Empty as usual
Money: Goin poorer everyday..
Basically, tat's all.. Wait for my next blog lor.. Haha
Tuesday, October 11, 2005
The Happening Happens Here...
Think more than a mth tat I last posted anything here... Alot of things happened over the past mth n I've been acting strong to face all these changes.. Let me count... Sunny's & Agnes' transfer, Jason goin to open a new branch, Chwee Jen resignation, n another 1? 2? 3? 4? or 5? ppl leaving this branch too... I reli how to react, cuz everything happened so fast... It's so miserable to pretend tat I'm alright, but the fact is I'm the most affected one cuz I jus duno how can I help...
I'm very stressed up, but I cant let anyone noe cuz if even I cant help them, den the whole branch will definitely go haywired... Tat's y nowadays I kept smsing my consultant, hopin to alleviate my inner pain & stress bit by bit.. Sometimes it does help, sometimes the pain jus got worse cuz the very next day u go to work, u see the same thing again or add ons...
I reli felt very miserable.. n I noe at this stage, the only person tat can help me is ME.. I must noe how to let it go.. If not, I will sure go mad.. Why is these things happening here? I reli feel like cryin now.. cuz I'm reli lost n felt so dishearted.. I'm only 21, y am I seeing this n need to fight this war? Jus bcuz I looked like a daredevil cuz I dare to try to do alot of things n speak out? Hahahahahahaha... (very sacastic laugh)
I'm very stressed up, but I cant let anyone noe cuz if even I cant help them, den the whole branch will definitely go haywired... Tat's y nowadays I kept smsing my consultant, hopin to alleviate my inner pain & stress bit by bit.. Sometimes it does help, sometimes the pain jus got worse cuz the very next day u go to work, u see the same thing again or add ons...
I reli felt very miserable.. n I noe at this stage, the only person tat can help me is ME.. I must noe how to let it go.. If not, I will sure go mad.. Why is these things happening here? I reli feel like cryin now.. cuz I'm reli lost n felt so dishearted.. I'm only 21, y am I seeing this n need to fight this war? Jus bcuz I looked like a daredevil cuz I dare to try to do alot of things n speak out? Hahahahahahaha... (very sacastic laugh)
Saturday, September 10, 2005
Damn Upset Day - 090905
Yest was a heart-wrenching day, can see tears everywhere, those who showed it, and oso for those swallowed it.. Finally it's time tat Agnes n Jason left our branch liao.. Terrible.. All these events tat had happened within the last 2 wks had made some of us, including me reli wondered is this life? How come life likes to play a fool on us? Things does happen with a reason, I dun believe tat there's no reason behind Sunny n Agnes' transfers.. I dun buy the crap/reason tat was given to me.. At first when I came to this line, I was full of fear cuz I duno will I be able to adapt to this job? Den wen I reli catch a hold of something, I was thinking this is a gd place to work in, very fun n challengin bcuz of the ppl ard here.. BUT the cruelty came within these few weeks, tat ppl are transferring out.. WTF!! damn it.. Jus like wat Jason said, what we can do?
Now without so many ppl, or rather pillars of supports, I will be on my own though there's stil Jiawen, Cheryl n the young ones, but these things has bring down our morale so much tat I reli wondered is this the place tat we can stay.. n i'm startin to get pressure fr 2 ppl, I'll have to prove myself if not I'll in deep shit.. Will we suffer the fate of being transferred one day if our performance doesnt reach branch standards or other rules n reg? I told myself or Jiawen that if one day, if he or cheryl were to leave, n the young ones go to study, tat's will be the end.. Either I leave this job n pursue my dream, or I apply for a transfer to a branch where a fren is around.. This is reli childish thinking, but no choice, all these are caused by something..
Now without so many ppl, or rather pillars of supports, I will be on my own though there's stil Jiawen, Cheryl n the young ones, but these things has bring down our morale so much tat I reli wondered is this the place tat we can stay.. n i'm startin to get pressure fr 2 ppl, I'll have to prove myself if not I'll in deep shit.. Will we suffer the fate of being transferred one day if our performance doesnt reach branch standards or other rules n reg? I told myself or Jiawen that if one day, if he or cheryl were to leave, n the young ones go to study, tat's will be the end.. Either I leave this job n pursue my dream, or I apply for a transfer to a branch where a fren is around.. This is reli childish thinking, but no choice, all these are caused by something..
Tuesday, September 06, 2005
Breaking Down 020905
i finally broke down again yest nite after hearing tat dramatic news in the afternoon.. i tot tat was the worst, but it wasnt.. today i heard the worst.. there was a change in something.. a change tat i think i will break down many times during this period.. ok, i'm childish, i'm a weakling, i'm lousy.. i jus cant cope with all these changes.. i didnt cry tat time during sunny's last day, i tot i had got over it n will not cry again wen i heard such news again..
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tml is the last day tat sunny will be at the branch with us. i wonder will i be a crybaby anot ar? mayb like wat my fren said, i'm a weakling, i jus cant control myself n i refuse to face the truth. sianz ar. feel like scolding vulgar language but cannot leh. haiz~ getting a little hysterical over the things tat r happenin ard me. work is one, family life is another. though we should always look on the bright side of life, we cant always deceive ourselves. how long can i lie to myself? one day? one mth? one yr? or forever?
tml is the last day tat sunny will be at the branch with us. i wonder will i be a crybaby anot ar? mayb like wat my fren said, i'm a weakling, i jus cant control myself n i refuse to face the truth. sianz ar. feel like scolding vulgar language but cannot leh. haiz~ getting a little hysterical over the things tat r happenin ard me. work is one, family life is another. though we should always look on the bright side of life, we cant always deceive ourselves. how long can i lie to myself? one day? one mth? one yr? or forever?
I Cried 130805
Today is the most embarassing day cuz I actuali cried at the branch.. It's all bcuz of Sunny n ... Jason. Sunny is definitely goin, n when I called him up in the afternoon to ask more, he sounded so calm, as if nth had happened.. Tat made me so upset.. Thinkin the days tat I bickered at him, the days we talked abt other ppl's gossips, the days when I first came, the things he taught me, n many many things, reli made me felt so "guilty".. Mayb I'm more emotional ba.. I reli cant stand it..
The next person is Jason.. Think he is leaving together with Sunny too, maybe to start a branch of his own somewhere.. So it's only another 15 days to see them.. Haiz~ Y like tat? I hate it, I hate it n I Hate IT!! So many ppl leavin at one go, I reli cant stand it.. Y?! Y?! Y?! I heard tat there'll probably a third person leaving too.. Cannot like tat la.. Hope tat I can have a transfer after CNY.. to Jason's branch.. (dream on!)
Must cherish the beautiful memories now, if not, the chances of us seein again is possible, but it will get lesser n lesser as time goes on.. haiz~
The next person is Jason.. Think he is leaving together with Sunny too, maybe to start a branch of his own somewhere.. So it's only another 15 days to see them.. Haiz~ Y like tat? I hate it, I hate it n I Hate IT!! So many ppl leavin at one go, I reli cant stand it.. Y?! Y?! Y?! I heard tat there'll probably a third person leaving too.. Cannot like tat la.. Hope tat I can have a transfer after CNY.. to Jason's branch.. (dream on!)
Must cherish the beautiful memories now, if not, the chances of us seein again is possible, but it will get lesser n lesser as time goes on.. haiz~
Saturday, August 27, 2005
Boring (Birth)Day..
Received alot of well wishes fr my frens to greet me Happy 21st Bday today.. Sianz.. Cuz my kaki not free to go out with me today, den I dun feel like askin other kakis out, so I went out alone lor..
My bro wanted to get me something, but I dunno wat I wan, so I jus casually said digicam cuz I felt tat I may need it in my work or so on.. Went to bugis, funan n finally mustafa to see wat r the available models tat I can get.. In the end, I got my eyes hooked on something else, Zen Neeon.. Hehe.. Think I will get tat in the end ba.. Cheap n not bad..
Reli very boring today to go out alone, or is it tat I became a workaholic? Even I'm outside, I felt kind of uneasy leh.. Den on the way of leavin funan, I msged CK, tot tat he might be at work, so tat mayb we can have dinner together n crap, but too bad he's off, den cannot lor.. No choice lor, go to the new library n see whether wat's so gd abt there.. but oso nth to see.. Damn boring man, n the worst is my next two days are off too..
My bro wanted to get me something, but I dunno wat I wan, so I jus casually said digicam cuz I felt tat I may need it in my work or so on.. Went to bugis, funan n finally mustafa to see wat r the available models tat I can get.. In the end, I got my eyes hooked on something else, Zen Neeon.. Hehe.. Think I will get tat in the end ba.. Cheap n not bad..
Reli very boring today to go out alone, or is it tat I became a workaholic? Even I'm outside, I felt kind of uneasy leh.. Den on the way of leavin funan, I msged CK, tot tat he might be at work, so tat mayb we can have dinner together n crap, but too bad he's off, den cannot lor.. No choice lor, go to the new library n see whether wat's so gd abt there.. but oso nth to see.. Damn boring man, n the worst is my next two days are off too..
Memorable & Unforgettable 21st..
I'm finally 21!! Very happy cuz I had a bunch of colleagues to celebrate with me.. (though I'm not a gd host today) Sunny, Jason, Cheryl, Jiawen, Agnes, Kok Thiam, Bee Kim & Swee Han.. All my buddies tat I had known since I came to Bukit Merah.. No Bday Cake, No fanciful thingy, jus a simple treat for them n go "cheong" at clarke quay till 1.30am.. Simple n Memorable.. I sweared tat I'll never ever forget this day, today, where I turned 21st.. As usual, we r talking abt the craps + gossips + rumors tat r spreadin ard the branch.. Had so much laughter n fun but I admit tat I abit not in the mood.. There is a mixture of other different emotions too cuz this is the first n probably the last tat such chances for us to meet in such a big grp as Sunny is leaving nx tues.. Followed by Jason, I guessed.. Though he refused to tell us the exact date, there r news tat r spreading fast tat he is leaving soon too.. Jus cant imagine how life will be without him? Mayb I'm too dependent on him, or I had felt too attached to him? Tat day someone was askin me wat kind of guys am I reli lookin for, mayb he is the type, he has lots of gd personalities n somehow similar to me.. But to me, he is jus an older bro to me cuz the age gap between us is reli too wide.. (10 yrs apart) n I reli felt like a little sis when he talked to me.. Hehe.. If life can be like this forever, there wouldnt be any regrets in this world..
Saturday, August 20, 2005
Quizilla
What is Your TRUE Astrology Sign?
You are a Virgo!!You are real, honest, helpfull and analytical. You can pick out every detail and when something isn't right you wont stop till you have fixed it! Unlike any of the other signs you sleep less, because your always busy thinking about how to improve something!! You are modest and humble about all that you do and you give your all to anything that you do!!!! Of all the animals in the world you are most like a bee, a bee you say, yes a bee. Like a bee you are a hard worker and like a bee you do things that other people think are ipossible. Also just like a bee, you are worth your weight in gold, because you do things that are usefull and actually help the world! Without bees we probably wouldnt be alive, and for that we thank you bees (i am talking to you of course!!). -Your colors are navy blue and grey -your metal is mercury -your precious stone is a sapphire, and like a sapphire you are never "cut from the cloth" you are different just like every sapphire is a different color and heu! -your lucky day of the weeki is wednesday -the part of the body that you rule is your intestions and nervous system -your element is earth -the planet that you are ruled by is mercury -your true love comes from a scorpio, capricorn, taurus, your own virgo, and sometimes aquarius..
What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?
You're the Friend Girlfriend. You probably knew your boy as a good friend before he asked you out, and the whole transition from buds to boyfriend and girlfriend can be awkward and slow. Youre a great girlfriend: not too pushy or demanding, very easy-going and at ease with your guy, making him feel completely at comfortable. You two share a great understanding and patience with the other. Because youve known each other outside the dating relationship, you are already familiar with each others quirks and habits and in communicating very easy. You can do anything together and have a great time just because you enjoy each others company. You read him very well and arent overly possessive; he can go out just with the guys or say Hey to another girl without you going berserk. Honestly, when you started going out, the only thing that really changed in your relationship was more one-on-one time . . . oh yeah, and lets not forget the occasional romantic surprises, I love you and, of course, the kisses--now thats something that didnt happen before he asked you out! heehee
Sometimes, because the relationship transition from friend to something more can be very weird, you can be afraid to move into a deeper relationship. You dont want your friendship ruined, so you hold back and pull away, and this doesnt work. For one thing, your guy may want the two of you to act like a romantic couple instead of just pals. Secondly, he asked you out and you said yes--the friendships changed forever now. That doesnt mean it died; its just different. On the same note, if youre not afraid to move forward, sometimes you are just nonchalant; youre so comfortable where it was you dont make an effort to advance. If its cool with your guy, then its great, but otherwise, time to wake up and smell the coffee: youre dating and you CAN act like it.
You need a guy whos a great, loyal pal, someone whos not going to rush you into romance but is romantic nonetheless. Hes someone whos on the same page as you, and as equally easy-going and committed as you are. He shouldnt be overly jealous, though he definitely needs to live up to his role as your beau just as you live up to your role as the girlfriend. You two really do make the absolutely perfect couple: two friends everyone knew were meant for the other. How sweet!
How will your dream First Kiss be?
Your kiss will be cute and timid. It will be light and just enough to send your little heart in a whirle. You're both kind of nervous but you both want to do it. It will probably be awkward but thats ok for you at least it's happening.
What is your true element?
Your element is Light: Innocent, beautiful, kind-hearted and pure. You are so sweet your almost angelic, you find joy in others happiness and cannot stand to see anyone in pain. You want to make everyone around you feel good about themselves and if someone is upset you can tend to become rather upset as well which means you are sympathetic and raise others above yourself. Being as kind and good-natured as you are people have most likely hurt you in the past but you pick yourself up every time. You may look fragile but you are stronger than most tend to see. Life is beautiful no matter how you look at it and you understand that people make mistakes, not everyone is perfect. You try to see the good in the bad which is a talent few possess, dont ever let anyone change you. You truly have a beautiful soul inside and a heart of gold.
What does your birth month reveal about you?
August,Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and fearless.Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride of oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.
The Eye color personality test
You chose brown eyes.Brown eyed people are normally very romantic. You love to daydream, and sometimes you get confused with your own fantasies over reality. You are pretty outgoing, but some days, all you want to be, is alone, reading, or thinking by yourself. You have many talants, and you will probably have a very important job when you're older.
What can people see in your eyes?
People see happiness in your eyes! You are most likely a really awesome person who trys to enjoy life. You can usually see the good in any situation or person. You bring joy wherever you go in life and probably have a really good set of friends. But sometimes you may strive too hard to be happy and may try to fool yourself and others. In this case, it's not good to hold in your feelings, and you should try to find someone to talk to about what's bothering you instead of covering it up. But, all in all you usually get over these situations quickly and can continue living life to its fullest! Go you! ^_^
If You Were An Anime Character What Would You Look Like?
Ok, you are a romantic anime girl and you love and care for a lot of people.There is no evil in you soul or your heart.Though sometimes people don't feel the same way as you do you keep on trying to change their mind.You love to help people out and you are always happy.Keep on trying to make the whole world smile because you know smiles are contagious ^_^.Oh and if it seems like there is nobody who could love you as much as you could love them it doesn't matter the thing is that the only thing that matters is that he cares and loves you and it doesn't matter how much well maybe it does but don't set you standards to high cuz then you'll find nobody.
What Do People Truly See You As?
People see you as a Dreamer. You always have your head in the clouds and long for a better place. Dreamers are imaginative and creative and often have a very short attention span. My recommendation to all dreamers is to try to make all your dreams come true! Never say Never my dear dreamer!
What kind of school girl are you?
You're a loner. But instead of being depressed, your happy and content with your life. You spend a lot of time with your family and there's a sort of innocence about you. Most people think you're cute.
You are a Virgo!!You are real, honest, helpfull and analytical. You can pick out every detail and when something isn't right you wont stop till you have fixed it! Unlike any of the other signs you sleep less, because your always busy thinking about how to improve something!! You are modest and humble about all that you do and you give your all to anything that you do!!!! Of all the animals in the world you are most like a bee, a bee you say, yes a bee. Like a bee you are a hard worker and like a bee you do things that other people think are ipossible. Also just like a bee, you are worth your weight in gold, because you do things that are usefull and actually help the world! Without bees we probably wouldnt be alive, and for that we thank you bees (i am talking to you of course!!). -Your colors are navy blue and grey -your metal is mercury -your precious stone is a sapphire, and like a sapphire you are never "cut from the cloth" you are different just like every sapphire is a different color and heu! -your lucky day of the weeki is wednesday -the part of the body that you rule is your intestions and nervous system -your element is earth -the planet that you are ruled by is mercury -your true love comes from a scorpio, capricorn, taurus, your own virgo, and sometimes aquarius..
What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?
You're the Friend Girlfriend. You probably knew your boy as a good friend before he asked you out, and the whole transition from buds to boyfriend and girlfriend can be awkward and slow. Youre a great girlfriend: not too pushy or demanding, very easy-going and at ease with your guy, making him feel completely at comfortable. You two share a great understanding and patience with the other. Because youve known each other outside the dating relationship, you are already familiar with each others quirks and habits and in communicating very easy. You can do anything together and have a great time just because you enjoy each others company. You read him very well and arent overly possessive; he can go out just with the guys or say Hey to another girl without you going berserk. Honestly, when you started going out, the only thing that really changed in your relationship was more one-on-one time . . . oh yeah, and lets not forget the occasional romantic surprises, I love you and, of course, the kisses--now thats something that didnt happen before he asked you out! heehee
Sometimes, because the relationship transition from friend to something more can be very weird, you can be afraid to move into a deeper relationship. You dont want your friendship ruined, so you hold back and pull away, and this doesnt work. For one thing, your guy may want the two of you to act like a romantic couple instead of just pals. Secondly, he asked you out and you said yes--the friendships changed forever now. That doesnt mean it died; its just different. On the same note, if youre not afraid to move forward, sometimes you are just nonchalant; youre so comfortable where it was you dont make an effort to advance. If its cool with your guy, then its great, but otherwise, time to wake up and smell the coffee: youre dating and you CAN act like it.
You need a guy whos a great, loyal pal, someone whos not going to rush you into romance but is romantic nonetheless. Hes someone whos on the same page as you, and as equally easy-going and committed as you are. He shouldnt be overly jealous, though he definitely needs to live up to his role as your beau just as you live up to your role as the girlfriend. You two really do make the absolutely perfect couple: two friends everyone knew were meant for the other. How sweet!
How will your dream First Kiss be?
Your kiss will be cute and timid. It will be light and just enough to send your little heart in a whirle. You're both kind of nervous but you both want to do it. It will probably be awkward but thats ok for you at least it's happening.
What is your true element?
Your element is Light: Innocent, beautiful, kind-hearted and pure. You are so sweet your almost angelic, you find joy in others happiness and cannot stand to see anyone in pain. You want to make everyone around you feel good about themselves and if someone is upset you can tend to become rather upset as well which means you are sympathetic and raise others above yourself. Being as kind and good-natured as you are people have most likely hurt you in the past but you pick yourself up every time. You may look fragile but you are stronger than most tend to see. Life is beautiful no matter how you look at it and you understand that people make mistakes, not everyone is perfect. You try to see the good in the bad which is a talent few possess, dont ever let anyone change you. You truly have a beautiful soul inside and a heart of gold.
What does your birth month reveal about you?
August,Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and fearless.Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride of oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.
The Eye color personality test
You chose brown eyes.Brown eyed people are normally very romantic. You love to daydream, and sometimes you get confused with your own fantasies over reality. You are pretty outgoing, but some days, all you want to be, is alone, reading, or thinking by yourself. You have many talants, and you will probably have a very important job when you're older.
What can people see in your eyes?
People see happiness in your eyes! You are most likely a really awesome person who trys to enjoy life. You can usually see the good in any situation or person. You bring joy wherever you go in life and probably have a really good set of friends. But sometimes you may strive too hard to be happy and may try to fool yourself and others. In this case, it's not good to hold in your feelings, and you should try to find someone to talk to about what's bothering you instead of covering it up. But, all in all you usually get over these situations quickly and can continue living life to its fullest! Go you! ^_^
If You Were An Anime Character What Would You Look Like?
Ok, you are a romantic anime girl and you love and care for a lot of people.There is no evil in you soul or your heart.Though sometimes people don't feel the same way as you do you keep on trying to change their mind.You love to help people out and you are always happy.Keep on trying to make the whole world smile because you know smiles are contagious ^_^.Oh and if it seems like there is nobody who could love you as much as you could love them it doesn't matter the thing is that the only thing that matters is that he cares and loves you and it doesn't matter how much well maybe it does but don't set you standards to high cuz then you'll find nobody.
What Do People Truly See You As?
People see you as a Dreamer. You always have your head in the clouds and long for a better place. Dreamers are imaginative and creative and often have a very short attention span. My recommendation to all dreamers is to try to make all your dreams come true! Never say Never my dear dreamer!
What kind of school girl are you?
You're a loner. But instead of being depressed, your happy and content with your life. You spend a lot of time with your family and there's a sort of innocence about you. Most people think you're cute.
Friday, August 12, 2005
Mixed Emotions..
It had been a long time since I wrote any blog over here, most of the time are updated over at the friendster blog.. These few weeks, many things had happened n goin to happen..
First of all is over bgr thingy.. Mayb I had met a jerk in somehow or the prob lies with me.. Jus duno how to handle such things la cuz never had b4.. But luckily nothin had started btn the both of us, or else I would have been hurt even deeper.. Cant say I'm lookin for new target, cuz the main thing is to settle my weighty prob den I'll talk abt bgr.. Mayb recently alot of things had happened, so there are times tat I reli hope tat's a someone special who I can talk to or lean to whenever such things happen.. But too bad, hvn found one yet.. Haha..
Next on is my extended family prob.. Very f*cked up over this prob, cuz it had been draggin on for many yrs, n we, the younger generation cant do anything.. Sigh* Cant reveal much here cuz it is super personal..
Today at the function, our 01 (manager), Mr Tey broke a piece of sudden news to us.. My colleague, Sunny will be transferring out to another branch startin next month.. And Cheryl and I will be takin over the dept from 1 Sept.. It's super sudden cuz we reli din expect he will get transferred out.. Guessed the next one will be our 02, Jason.. Haiz~ I reli reli reli hope tat Jason dun go so fast cuz I jus came here for 3 mths only.. He had been a very gd teacher, advisor, friend, big brother and colleague to all of us... I'm very very very grateful to him cuz he is very patient in teachin us anyting n everything tat he can.. He seldom says "NO" to anything.. Even if he is sick, he will stil carry on, jus like today.. He insisted on stayin on to the very last min.. That's professionalism.. He dun have tat kind of "I'm superior than u" attitude.. I reli enjoyed workin with him.. We are very willing to do anything he says without him applyin any pressure on us.. He doesnt show any favorism/biased towards any staff.. I treated him like my own brother.. I guessed no 02 in the other branch are like him, so easygoin n super "on" one.. I hope to learn more from him.. If he has the chance to operate a branch on his own (being the 01) somewhere, I wish to get transferred to his branch (tat's impossible). I aimed to be like him..
So many ppl will be gone in such a short while.. Think life will start to get boring liao..
First of all is over bgr thingy.. Mayb I had met a jerk in somehow or the prob lies with me.. Jus duno how to handle such things la cuz never had b4.. But luckily nothin had started btn the both of us, or else I would have been hurt even deeper.. Cant say I'm lookin for new target, cuz the main thing is to settle my weighty prob den I'll talk abt bgr.. Mayb recently alot of things had happened, so there are times tat I reli hope tat's a someone special who I can talk to or lean to whenever such things happen.. But too bad, hvn found one yet.. Haha..
Next on is my extended family prob.. Very f*cked up over this prob, cuz it had been draggin on for many yrs, n we, the younger generation cant do anything.. Sigh* Cant reveal much here cuz it is super personal..
Today at the function, our 01 (manager), Mr Tey broke a piece of sudden news to us.. My colleague, Sunny will be transferring out to another branch startin next month.. And Cheryl and I will be takin over the dept from 1 Sept.. It's super sudden cuz we reli din expect he will get transferred out.. Guessed the next one will be our 02, Jason.. Haiz~ I reli reli reli hope tat Jason dun go so fast cuz I jus came here for 3 mths only.. He had been a very gd teacher, advisor, friend, big brother and colleague to all of us... I'm very very very grateful to him cuz he is very patient in teachin us anyting n everything tat he can.. He seldom says "NO" to anything.. Even if he is sick, he will stil carry on, jus like today.. He insisted on stayin on to the very last min.. That's professionalism.. He dun have tat kind of "I'm superior than u" attitude.. I reli enjoyed workin with him.. We are very willing to do anything he says without him applyin any pressure on us.. He doesnt show any favorism/biased towards any staff.. I treated him like my own brother.. I guessed no 02 in the other branch are like him, so easygoin n super "on" one.. I hope to learn more from him.. If he has the chance to operate a branch on his own (being the 01) somewhere, I wish to get transferred to his branch (tat's impossible). I aimed to be like him..
So many ppl will be gone in such a short while.. Think life will start to get boring liao..
Thursday, July 28, 2005
Jus Like Ocean Ou...
欧得洋本人不但长的很帅，而且声音又好听，歌唱得也很好听 很感人，脾气也很好，人非常具有亲和力——是新好男生类型的，欧欧也非常具有人格魅力——没有大明星的架子 对歌迷的每一帖留言 都一封封的回，又有钱（其实这点不重要），学历也非常高——是做医药研究工作的，然后听过对欧欧的访谈之后，又发现——欧欧非常的幽默，也非常的阳光，所有访谈过欧欧的主持人都说欧欧长得不错 很帅哦！！
我道认为他应该是粉迷糊.
最喜欢欧欧对女友的体贴，懂得买花逗人‘哈哈笑’。。
忘了，他还有深如刀割的双眼皮~~这是许多女生梦寐以求的！！！！~
欧欧本人正如歌里面唱的，是个好好男生哦！！！还有 欧欧还会弹吉他哦，很有才华的！！！
我道认为他应该是粉迷糊.
最喜欢欧欧对女友的体贴，懂得买花逗人‘哈哈笑’。。
忘了，他还有深如刀割的双眼皮~~这是许多女生梦寐以求的！！！！~
欧欧本人正如歌里面唱的，是个好好男生哦！！！还有 欧欧还会弹吉他哦，很有才华的！！！
Sunday, July 24, 2005
Horoscope Compatibility...
Aries + Virgo
Fire + Earth = Lava
The cool, critical perfection-loving Virgo is a completely different kettle of fish for you, Aries. In fact, Virgo is so different that you may feel completely at odds, even irritated and angry with the moral control they exhibit. Conversely, your fast, furious and impulsive nature will throw Virgo into a complete tailspin. This is a combination not for the faint of heart.
As with Taurus, the first of the earth signs, Virgo and Capricorn also relate to your financial and professional arena. Though a preliminary study shows you and Virgo are quite incompatible, Aries can learn much about the order and meticulousness of Virgo and perhaps apply that to life. If you’re open enough and patient in absorbing these intricate methodologies of Virgo, you could discover life skills by applying Virgo’s advice.
The straightforwardness of Aries is unadorned, unlike the complex intellectual and deductive mind of Virgo. Both of you have similar ideals but present your views and live your principles in a vastly different manner. This is also the case sexually. Virgo seems too prim and proper for your raw and primitive energy. But there’s no doubt that Virgo was born to serve, as you were born to lead. In this sense there could be a quirky sort of compatibility between you. Don’t be too quick to jump to conclusions, especially in matters of love.
If you choose to work with each other, there could be a unique success in the supportive role Virgo could offer you. You could spontaneously feed ideas to a partner who will hone in on and refine your concepts to a working and practical success.
If you do feel attracted to a Virgo, possibly due to some karmic longing, those born in the third portion will be far more suitable for you, that is, born from 13 to 23 September. Try to avoid partnerships with those born between 3 and 13 September. Other Virgos, born between 24 August and 2 September, are only moderately compatible.
Virgo + Taurus
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
Here is a combination that is elementally perfect, astrologically. Taurus and Virgo can complement each other on many levels. For a start, the combination of two earth signs solidifies the practical nature of your relationship and this means that you are aware and accommodating of Taurus’ need for financial independence and material security. Taurus must be prepared for your fastidious and perfection-driven approach. They are far more plodding in nature and the sort of mental challenge you offer may tire them, even though they essentially agree with your suggestions.
Virgo will stimulate Taurus in discussion but, after some time, Taurus will quietly and assertively inform you that some quiet space is needed in which they—and your intellectual aerobics—can take rest. Your highly mental approach may see this as an insult and feel that Taurus just isn’t motivated enough. You both need to find common interests; activities or hobbies such as art, fashion, music and even cooking could be a wonderful joint activity that counters your intellectual differences. Taurus can relax your high-strung nature and bring your lifestyles in line with each other.
Because Virgo is the fifth or romantic sector for Taurus, there’s no doubt that your physical pleasure will be mutual and this is certainly a relationship you should work at. Consider those Taureans born between 30 April and 10 May, as the co-rulership of Mercury naturally draws you to them and brings out your best essence. You can have exciting times and amorous adventures with Taureans born between 21 and 29 April. Venus promises lots of love and affection between you and this could develop into a mature and rewarding relationship. Any love and intimacy you experience with Taureans born between 11 and 21 May has the taint of Saturn and may not ultimately fulfil you.
Virgo + Gemini
Earth + Air = Dust
There are some intrinsic differences between Virgo and Gemini, notwithstanding their common rulership of Mercury. Gemini senses many similarities in your Virgo temperament but may feel at times exasperated with your perfectionist attitude toward detail. You probably enjoy playing mental games and communicating with each other, but Gemini is more likely to skim the surface rather than dive into the minutiae, which your mind has a tendency to do.
Virgo is the fourth sign to Gemini and indicates the domestic and family sphere. You will actually provide Gemini a safe haven from which to conduct the various activities that seem to be part of their world. They’ll feel more anchored with you, as your earth sign will give them the sense of security and even financial stability that they lack, due to their dispersed nature. For this reason there are some positive elements that seem to connect between the two of you. Gemini does have a propensity to be more light-hearted and jocular about things and this could be cause for concern for you because you like to see things in a more solemn way. Gemini should never offend your sensibilities as innocent as their jokes may appear. You would also do well to imbibe some of the light-heartedness of Gemini.
On the lovemaking side of things, you are fairly conservative, having Saturn ruling your sexual nature, whereas Gemini and its Venus-ruled sexual sector of Libra is much more sensual and playful. This is probably not the greatest match between zodiac signs, but has several redeeming factors and could well be well worth a try.
If you’re choosing a Gemini as a partner, those born between 22 May and 1 June are very well suited to you and provide you with incredibly stimulating conversation. You’ll work well with them and play will be fun, too. Those born between 2 and 12 June are co-ruled by Venus and Libra and there is more of a material foundation to your friendship, though there may be moments of pleasure intertwined in the connection. If you come in touch with those born between 13 and 21 June, the complex interplay of Aquarius as co-ruler promises challenges, but if you’re prepared to persist, this combination can also bring you fulfilment.
Virgo + Cancer
Earth + Water = Mud
This is a rich and fertile combination of two feminine zodiac signs ruled by Mercury and the Moon respectively. A Virgo and Cancer combination can produce wonderfully imaginative results on all levels. The sensitive Moon of Cancer and your intellectually brilliant ruler, Mercury, combine in a most wonderful play of celestial forces. Great friendship and understanding result from your meeting, but at times you’ll have difficulty understanding the Cancerian sensitivity and emotional mood swings. When you ask Cancer to “think things through, without being so emotional about it”, Cancer will look at you strangely and reply, “But can’t you feel what I’m feeling?” Both of you are at opposite ends of the spectrum in the way you see a particular problem: Cancer emotionally, and you, Virgo, intellectually. Cancer is a friendly sign to Virgo and a sector of life fulfilment, so you can slowly but surely accept and start to experience the more responsive side of their personality. Likewise, Cancer can become more reasonable as the empathy between the two of you is strong and will grow over time.
The one specific area you must control is the tendency to criticise and judge Cancer severely. Cancer’s vulnerability, being what it is, may not withstand your ruthless and at times incessant demand for perfection. This may also, unfortunately, be translated into the most private area of sexuality, where you may demand a performance that is not in keeping with Cancer’s easier-going, slower and more receptive nature.
Good friendship and social alliances are created with those Cancers born between 22 June and 3 July. You can also have strong and long-standing ties with any Cancer born between 14 and 22 July. These Cancerians will provide you with by far the most satisfying emotional and physical compatibility. Problems may arise with Cancerians born between 4 and 13 July and you’re advised to abstain from too much criticism of these sensitive and sometimes implacable people.
Virgo + Leo
Earth + Fire = Lava
In coming together with Leo you’ll have an early realisation that their boldness and strong ego may steamroll your modest and prudent mind. Leo is strongly required to be sensitive to you by not going beyond certain bounds of power and control. You also exert power but in a less forceful manner and have a tendency to work behind the scenes and in a more exacting and self-sacrificial manner. Your key focus is on the service and excellence of your professional and general duties. Leo isn’t concerned so much with the detail as with being first, wielding power and winning accolades in the “game”. They like to dominate a situation rather than remain invisible.
Virgo, you have a tendency to look at microscopic details which, if directed to the proud and arrogant Leo, could set sparks flying. Leo is rarely wrong (at least in their own mind) and is usually beyond reproach. You will have to carefully assess how to constructively criticise your Leo. There are some strong connections financially between your two star signs, as Virgo falls in the second or financial sector of Leo, whereas Leo falls in the twelfth or loss sector for you. This equation on a financial level isn’t too balanced, and you must be careful not to give too much in the way of material assistance as well emotional energy to the Leo character, lest you feel taken advantage of.
Though you may feel uplifted by the warm radiations of Leo in the bedroom, the same can’t be said for Leo’s experience of Virgo. You seem too prim and proper for the bombastic and dramatic Leo, who prefers a roaring time sexually to your more modest display of affection. Your compatibility with those Leos born between 23 July and 4 August will shine a light on your otherwise mentally-orientated states. You can feel warmth and camaraderie with these people and friendship flourishes as a result. Your strong combination for a more enduring relationship is with those Leos born between 5 and 14 August. Jupiter will bless you and provide you with a true match made in heaven. It’s best to avoid those Leos born between 15 and 23 August, as their Mars co-rulership may create lots of problems, disputes and backbiting.
Virgo + Virgo
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
Your exacting and precise Virgo character will meet its match in association with another Virgo. Perfectionism is not something easily attained and your coming together with another Virgo will help you to realise that human perfection is not possible and that you must make concessions for the frailties found in each other. Your Virgo counterpart will demand as much perfection from you as you do of them. This combination is quite likely to be an incredible challenge for both of you from the outset.
The lesson for your partnership is that you must enjoy the journey and take pleasure in the experience of life. On the journey to your goals don’t be too critical of each other, raising the standards to such a high level that neither of you can achieve them. You both do great work in your combined partnership when focused, though. Wholly and solely focus on enjoying the work at hand, as well as executing skilful action, and this will bring satisfaction to both of you in the long run. Notwithstanding these exacting demands on each other, you do have a lot in common in that you enjoy a clean and orderly environment and wish to pursue your individual and joint goals.
In intimacy and lovemaking you have a similar approach to the expression of your feelings. When you’re prepared to let go of your cerebral game play, your love life can be rather sweet and reciprocating. For Virgos, the best compatibilities are those born between 23 August and 2 September. There’s a more serious tone with those born between 3 and 12 September, with an obsession for material acquisition stunting any inner happiness, due to Capricorn’s co-rulership. Virgos born between 13 and 23 September are those who are co-ruled by Taurus and Venus and will be well suited to you, due to their softer and more stabilising influence.
Virgo + Libra
Earth + Air = Dust
This is a wonderful combination and complements you perfectly. The social and outgoing Libra balances your temperament. Libra will be a great aid in bringing you out of your shell, especially if you’re one of the more withdrawn types. The wonderful thing about Libra for you is the absorptive quality they possess in handling any of the criticisms you may dish out. The reason for this is that Libra has the ability to see various sides of a situation and uses their ‘scales of justice’ to accept that what you say is without bias. The Libran ego is not that big that it won’t accommodate your perspectives or opinions and honestly try to implement them, particularly if that can improve your relationship.
The one difficulty with Libra, however, is that your keen attention to a preset program or timetable may not fit with their rather changeable and spontaneous mindset. You will need to accommodate the sociable Libran temperament and give them free reign in exploring their social appetites. Libra is interested in exploring the sexual and emotional side of life and you need to consider this cautiously, especially with those born between 14 and 23 October, who may have a less traditional attitude. This is even more pronounced with those born between 4 and 13 October, as they have the added influence of Aquarius making them very progressive, if not avant-garde in their attitudes to love. In fact, you may find them quite “hippy like”. Those born between 24 September and 3 October will make you feel loved and honoured as Venus doubly rules their energy, thus quieting your rather critical personality. This will make you more open and expressive about your feelings. This relationship between Virgo and Libra is essentially a good one.
Earth + Fire = Lava
Your ruling planet is Mercury, which is primarily concerned with detail. In contrast, Jupiter, which rules Sagittarius, is predominantly preoccupied with the bigger picture of life, love and circumstances generally. Both are mutable signs and indicate a certain pliability and adaptability so, in this regard, both of you will find similarities that can work positively for the success of your relationships.
Both of you must learn to see each other’s views and not be engrossed in your own perspectives. You must learn to let go of your more detailed criticism of things and see the outcome rather than the process, whereas Sagittarius must mull over the process rather than the outcome. The fact of the matter is that the combined influence of your ruling planets is a wonderfully ennobling combination, promising you plenty of intellectual and spiritual stimulation. Virgo can enhance the professional opportunities of Sagittarius, while Sagittarius needs to work a little more on staying grounded and developing the domestic sphere—which is very much the other side of your earthy Virgo needs.
In the love stakes there is a considerable difference in style. Your shy and reserved expression doesn’t usually give way to your deeper passions. Sagittarius is an enterprising visionary and prefers to experiment with these natural urges. If you are to enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship with Sagittarius, you need to put aside your mental gymnastics and simply enjoy the moment for what it is. Sagittarius will appreciate you all the more for it.
Your relationship with those born between 23 November and 1 December is probably the best fit. Those born between 2 and 11 December are abrasive to you. This is due to the co-rulership by Aries and Mars. In fact, this could be a dangerous combination and should be approached with caution. The fiery nature of these Sagittarians could cause a nervous burnout to your delicate Virgo system. The Sun and Leo, on the other hand, co-rule Sagittarians born between 12 and 22 December and they also may not offer you everything you are looking for in a partner. Nevertheless, they do have something to bring to a relationship in the way of spiritual insight. You may meet these people while travelling or indulge your penchant for long-distance travel with them.
Virgo + Capricorn
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
The elemental compatibility of Virgo with Capricorn is a no-brainer. You have an instantaneous rapport with Capricorn who will seem less serious and work-orientated than they might with other star signs. Though you both essentially have a thoroughly economical and pragmatic view of the world, your rulership by Mercury will draw out the more sullen Saturn-ruled Capricorn and make them feel refreshed, youthful and responsive to you. In the ancient Hindu system of astrology Mercury is called a young boy, which is possibly why Capricorns feel revitalised in your company. Mercury will bring out the more mischievous and pleasurable side of the usually cold and ambitious Capricorn. This is not to say both of you can’t work towards a material goal, but in your company Capricorn will feel more enlivened, more joyful and prepared to let go of the walls and protective mechanisms that are often a part of their conventional nature.
Though this seems to be more of a business-orientated relationship, Capricorn does fall in the fifth sector to Virgo and strongly highlights the amorous nature of this combination. Could it be that with a Capricorn you don’t feel as much of a tendency to be critical and to superimpose your concept of things? This in itself is what could bring out the more sensitive and loving aspects of Capricorn, though always against the background of a desire to provide you security and long-term comfort.
Those Capricorns born between 11 and 20 January will be ideally suited to you because the co-rulership of Mercury and Virgo for them is a perfect match. Those born between 23 December and 1 January are well suited and more financial and material objectives of the friendship may result. A sensual experience can be expected with those born between 2 and 10 January under the co-rulership of Taurus and Venus.
Virgo + Aquarius
Earth + Air = Dust
If ever a sign were going to challenge and baffle the observant Virgo, Aquarius would certainly be it. There is an unusually strange compatibility between you and this may not be immediately recognisable. Your first meetings may come about through some work or professional interaction in which Aquarius is called upon to assist you. You probably see much of yourself in the humanitarian and socially conscious Aquarian, but in a different way. The Aquarian is not as preoccupied with the nitty-gritty of things as you are, but is still very concerned with the idea of contributing to the community and the world as a whole. These noble ideas will attract your Virgo sensibilities and are a good basis for a relationship.
Aquarius needs to be mindful of tidiness and order, which is high on your list of priorities. They must accept that an orderly existence is crucial for you but they may be less concerned about these matters. Between the two of you there could be some idealistic tie-in in which you both serve each other by bringing your distinctly different skill sets together, amalgamating them for some greater cause. Just don’t superimpose any fussiness on the aloof Aquarian.
You may see in Aquarius an ideal that doesn’t fit easily into your intellectual ‘square’. This also applies to sex and intimacy. You must learn to be freer and more open in exploring what Aquarius has on offer. The best match would be with an Aquarian born between 31 January and 8 February, as they possess several similar intellectual traits to you. Aquarians born between 9 and 19 February are also well suited as partners and provide you with abundant sexual enjoyment. Those born between 21 and 30 January are probably the hardest lot for you to come to terms with. They may be better suited as work colleagues rather than as long-term romantic mates.
Virgo + Pisces
Earth + Water = Mud
The anomaly in a union between Virgo and Pisces is that both signs are opposite and usually indicate strong, marital inclinations. At the same time, you have such different approaches in terms of your personalities that it is quite surprising you would be attracted in the first place! But attracted you are and this is possibly due to the intuitive nature of Pisces, which is just what you need to bring out your less rational and emotional nature. Simultaneously, your astute intellectual manner will be well imbibed by your Pisces counterpart.
Both of you are changeable and moody in your own way, and the deeper issue here is that you are particularly motivated to understand, categorise and solve each and every problem meticulously. Pisces is happy to let the deeper spiritual forces bring answers to them. You may interpret this as a form of intellectual laziness and will even see it as ample opportunity for attack. Sensitive Pisces may not retaliate, since water signs tend to be deep and brooding and bide their time until the appropriate occasion for a response. The sharp and caustic criticism of Virgo will scar Pisces deeply and this will, in the long run, scare them off. The onus is on you, Virgo, to pull back a little and not make such heavy demands. With a tactful approach, a thriving partnership can be expected and possibly even a marriage of souls.
Your best combinations are with Pisces born between 20 and 28 February and these Pisces will offer you the most stable and continuing chances for a fulfiling relationship. Those Pisces born between 1 and 10 March also make great friends and sensitive admirers. Those born between 11 and 20 March are strong communicators, but may not be quite as open to your criticisms. In fact, a retaliatory response from those born in this period can be expected.
Fire + Earth = Lava
The cool, critical perfection-loving Virgo is a completely different kettle of fish for you, Aries. In fact, Virgo is so different that you may feel completely at odds, even irritated and angry with the moral control they exhibit. Conversely, your fast, furious and impulsive nature will throw Virgo into a complete tailspin. This is a combination not for the faint of heart.
As with Taurus, the first of the earth signs, Virgo and Capricorn also relate to your financial and professional arena. Though a preliminary study shows you and Virgo are quite incompatible, Aries can learn much about the order and meticulousness of Virgo and perhaps apply that to life. If you’re open enough and patient in absorbing these intricate methodologies of Virgo, you could discover life skills by applying Virgo’s advice.
The straightforwardness of Aries is unadorned, unlike the complex intellectual and deductive mind of Virgo. Both of you have similar ideals but present your views and live your principles in a vastly different manner. This is also the case sexually. Virgo seems too prim and proper for your raw and primitive energy. But there’s no doubt that Virgo was born to serve, as you were born to lead. In this sense there could be a quirky sort of compatibility between you. Don’t be too quick to jump to conclusions, especially in matters of love.
If you choose to work with each other, there could be a unique success in the supportive role Virgo could offer you. You could spontaneously feed ideas to a partner who will hone in on and refine your concepts to a working and practical success.
If you do feel attracted to a Virgo, possibly due to some karmic longing, those born in the third portion will be far more suitable for you, that is, born from 13 to 23 September. Try to avoid partnerships with those born between 3 and 13 September. Other Virgos, born between 24 August and 2 September, are only moderately compatible.
Virgo + Taurus
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
Here is a combination that is elementally perfect, astrologically. Taurus and Virgo can complement each other on many levels. For a start, the combination of two earth signs solidifies the practical nature of your relationship and this means that you are aware and accommodating of Taurus’ need for financial independence and material security. Taurus must be prepared for your fastidious and perfection-driven approach. They are far more plodding in nature and the sort of mental challenge you offer may tire them, even though they essentially agree with your suggestions.
Virgo will stimulate Taurus in discussion but, after some time, Taurus will quietly and assertively inform you that some quiet space is needed in which they—and your intellectual aerobics—can take rest. Your highly mental approach may see this as an insult and feel that Taurus just isn’t motivated enough. You both need to find common interests; activities or hobbies such as art, fashion, music and even cooking could be a wonderful joint activity that counters your intellectual differences. Taurus can relax your high-strung nature and bring your lifestyles in line with each other.
Because Virgo is the fifth or romantic sector for Taurus, there’s no doubt that your physical pleasure will be mutual and this is certainly a relationship you should work at. Consider those Taureans born between 30 April and 10 May, as the co-rulership of Mercury naturally draws you to them and brings out your best essence. You can have exciting times and amorous adventures with Taureans born between 21 and 29 April. Venus promises lots of love and affection between you and this could develop into a mature and rewarding relationship. Any love and intimacy you experience with Taureans born between 11 and 21 May has the taint of Saturn and may not ultimately fulfil you.
Virgo + Gemini
Earth + Air = Dust
There are some intrinsic differences between Virgo and Gemini, notwithstanding their common rulership of Mercury. Gemini senses many similarities in your Virgo temperament but may feel at times exasperated with your perfectionist attitude toward detail. You probably enjoy playing mental games and communicating with each other, but Gemini is more likely to skim the surface rather than dive into the minutiae, which your mind has a tendency to do.
Virgo is the fourth sign to Gemini and indicates the domestic and family sphere. You will actually provide Gemini a safe haven from which to conduct the various activities that seem to be part of their world. They’ll feel more anchored with you, as your earth sign will give them the sense of security and even financial stability that they lack, due to their dispersed nature. For this reason there are some positive elements that seem to connect between the two of you. Gemini does have a propensity to be more light-hearted and jocular about things and this could be cause for concern for you because you like to see things in a more solemn way. Gemini should never offend your sensibilities as innocent as their jokes may appear. You would also do well to imbibe some of the light-heartedness of Gemini.
On the lovemaking side of things, you are fairly conservative, having Saturn ruling your sexual nature, whereas Gemini and its Venus-ruled sexual sector of Libra is much more sensual and playful. This is probably not the greatest match between zodiac signs, but has several redeeming factors and could well be well worth a try.
If you’re choosing a Gemini as a partner, those born between 22 May and 1 June are very well suited to you and provide you with incredibly stimulating conversation. You’ll work well with them and play will be fun, too. Those born between 2 and 12 June are co-ruled by Venus and Libra and there is more of a material foundation to your friendship, though there may be moments of pleasure intertwined in the connection. If you come in touch with those born between 13 and 21 June, the complex interplay of Aquarius as co-ruler promises challenges, but if you’re prepared to persist, this combination can also bring you fulfilment.
Virgo + Cancer
Earth + Water = Mud
This is a rich and fertile combination of two feminine zodiac signs ruled by Mercury and the Moon respectively. A Virgo and Cancer combination can produce wonderfully imaginative results on all levels. The sensitive Moon of Cancer and your intellectually brilliant ruler, Mercury, combine in a most wonderful play of celestial forces. Great friendship and understanding result from your meeting, but at times you’ll have difficulty understanding the Cancerian sensitivity and emotional mood swings. When you ask Cancer to “think things through, without being so emotional about it”, Cancer will look at you strangely and reply, “But can’t you feel what I’m feeling?” Both of you are at opposite ends of the spectrum in the way you see a particular problem: Cancer emotionally, and you, Virgo, intellectually. Cancer is a friendly sign to Virgo and a sector of life fulfilment, so you can slowly but surely accept and start to experience the more responsive side of their personality. Likewise, Cancer can become more reasonable as the empathy between the two of you is strong and will grow over time.
The one specific area you must control is the tendency to criticise and judge Cancer severely. Cancer’s vulnerability, being what it is, may not withstand your ruthless and at times incessant demand for perfection. This may also, unfortunately, be translated into the most private area of sexuality, where you may demand a performance that is not in keeping with Cancer’s easier-going, slower and more receptive nature.
Good friendship and social alliances are created with those Cancers born between 22 June and 3 July. You can also have strong and long-standing ties with any Cancer born between 14 and 22 July. These Cancerians will provide you with by far the most satisfying emotional and physical compatibility. Problems may arise with Cancerians born between 4 and 13 July and you’re advised to abstain from too much criticism of these sensitive and sometimes implacable people.
Virgo + Leo
Earth + Fire = Lava
In coming together with Leo you’ll have an early realisation that their boldness and strong ego may steamroll your modest and prudent mind. Leo is strongly required to be sensitive to you by not going beyond certain bounds of power and control. You also exert power but in a less forceful manner and have a tendency to work behind the scenes and in a more exacting and self-sacrificial manner. Your key focus is on the service and excellence of your professional and general duties. Leo isn’t concerned so much with the detail as with being first, wielding power and winning accolades in the “game”. They like to dominate a situation rather than remain invisible.
Virgo, you have a tendency to look at microscopic details which, if directed to the proud and arrogant Leo, could set sparks flying. Leo is rarely wrong (at least in their own mind) and is usually beyond reproach. You will have to carefully assess how to constructively criticise your Leo. There are some strong connections financially between your two star signs, as Virgo falls in the second or financial sector of Leo, whereas Leo falls in the twelfth or loss sector for you. This equation on a financial level isn’t too balanced, and you must be careful not to give too much in the way of material assistance as well emotional energy to the Leo character, lest you feel taken advantage of.
Though you may feel uplifted by the warm radiations of Leo in the bedroom, the same can’t be said for Leo’s experience of Virgo. You seem too prim and proper for the bombastic and dramatic Leo, who prefers a roaring time sexually to your more modest display of affection. Your compatibility with those Leos born between 23 July and 4 August will shine a light on your otherwise mentally-orientated states. You can feel warmth and camaraderie with these people and friendship flourishes as a result. Your strong combination for a more enduring relationship is with those Leos born between 5 and 14 August. Jupiter will bless you and provide you with a true match made in heaven. It’s best to avoid those Leos born between 15 and 23 August, as their Mars co-rulership may create lots of problems, disputes and backbiting.
Virgo + Virgo
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
Your exacting and precise Virgo character will meet its match in association with another Virgo. Perfectionism is not something easily attained and your coming together with another Virgo will help you to realise that human perfection is not possible and that you must make concessions for the frailties found in each other. Your Virgo counterpart will demand as much perfection from you as you do of them. This combination is quite likely to be an incredible challenge for both of you from the outset.
The lesson for your partnership is that you must enjoy the journey and take pleasure in the experience of life. On the journey to your goals don’t be too critical of each other, raising the standards to such a high level that neither of you can achieve them. You both do great work in your combined partnership when focused, though. Wholly and solely focus on enjoying the work at hand, as well as executing skilful action, and this will bring satisfaction to both of you in the long run. Notwithstanding these exacting demands on each other, you do have a lot in common in that you enjoy a clean and orderly environment and wish to pursue your individual and joint goals.
In intimacy and lovemaking you have a similar approach to the expression of your feelings. When you’re prepared to let go of your cerebral game play, your love life can be rather sweet and reciprocating. For Virgos, the best compatibilities are those born between 23 August and 2 September. There’s a more serious tone with those born between 3 and 12 September, with an obsession for material acquisition stunting any inner happiness, due to Capricorn’s co-rulership. Virgos born between 13 and 23 September are those who are co-ruled by Taurus and Venus and will be well suited to you, due to their softer and more stabilising influence.
Virgo + Libra
Earth + Air = Dust
This is a wonderful combination and complements you perfectly. The social and outgoing Libra balances your temperament. Libra will be a great aid in bringing you out of your shell, especially if you’re one of the more withdrawn types. The wonderful thing about Libra for you is the absorptive quality they possess in handling any of the criticisms you may dish out. The reason for this is that Libra has the ability to see various sides of a situation and uses their ‘scales of justice’ to accept that what you say is without bias. The Libran ego is not that big that it won’t accommodate your perspectives or opinions and honestly try to implement them, particularly if that can improve your relationship.
The one difficulty with Libra, however, is that your keen attention to a preset program or timetable may not fit with their rather changeable and spontaneous mindset. You will need to accommodate the sociable Libran temperament and give them free reign in exploring their social appetites. Libra is interested in exploring the sexual and emotional side of life and you need to consider this cautiously, especially with those born between 14 and 23 October, who may have a less traditional attitude. This is even more pronounced with those born between 4 and 13 October, as they have the added influence of Aquarius making them very progressive, if not avant-garde in their attitudes to love. In fact, you may find them quite “hippy like”. Those born between 24 September and 3 October will make you feel loved and honoured as Venus doubly rules their energy, thus quieting your rather critical personality. This will make you more open and expressive about your feelings. This relationship between Virgo and Libra is essentially a good one.
Virgo + Scorpio
Earth + Water = Mud
Earth and water are the prerequisite elements for the growth of plants. Life depends on these two things. In other words, if a seed is planted at the appropriate time the combination of elements gives rise to a harvest. This analogy can best sum up the compatibility between the earth sign of Virgo and the water sign of Scorpio. There are many born under these two signs who have come together. They have been able to either secure a fulfiling life together or have squabbled incessantly into old age. Generally there’s a good connection between these two signs, as Virgo falls in the eleventh sector of friendship and lifelong fulfilment for Scorpio, and Scorpio falls in the third sector of communication for Virgo. Two very different planets rule you and a deeper appreciation of each other’s motives will help enormously in resolving any differences you may have.
The Pluto and Mars rulership of Scorpio is dominant, wilful and challenging in a most confrontational way, whereas your more prudent mind does battle intellectually. In a permanent relationship you may feel as though Scorpio’s insensitive attitude doesn’t respect or incorporate your needs or desires. Scorpio, on the other hand, becomes irritated with, if not disdainful of your laid-back and overly rational analysis of every little issue.
If Scorpio lightens up you will feel more motivated in this relationship. Both on a practical level and in matters of intimacy, this relationship has all the hallmarks of a great combination. This is particularly so for Scorpio, as you will offer great grounding where finances and investments are concerned. This combination can work towards financial stability and a mutual support system that offers both of you prosperity, security and happiness.
In your connections with Scorpio, those born between 3 and 12 November are ideally suited to long-term love and possibly marriage, due to Jupiter’s co-rulership, which falls in your seventh sector of marriage. Be wary of those Scorpios born between 24 October and 2 November, whose Mars co-rulership is diametrically opposed to your own. You may not see eye to eye with them on many matters. Those born between 13 and 22 offer you both gains and losses intermittently, and many of your karmic lessons will be tied up in your financial relationship with them. Remember the old saying: never mix business with pleasure.
Virgo + SagittariusEarth + Fire = Lava
Your ruling planet is Mercury, which is primarily concerned with detail. In contrast, Jupiter, which rules Sagittarius, is predominantly preoccupied with the bigger picture of life, love and circumstances generally. Both are mutable signs and indicate a certain pliability and adaptability so, in this regard, both of you will find similarities that can work positively for the success of your relationships.
Both of you must learn to see each other’s views and not be engrossed in your own perspectives. You must learn to let go of your more detailed criticism of things and see the outcome rather than the process, whereas Sagittarius must mull over the process rather than the outcome. The fact of the matter is that the combined influence of your ruling planets is a wonderfully ennobling combination, promising you plenty of intellectual and spiritual stimulation. Virgo can enhance the professional opportunities of Sagittarius, while Sagittarius needs to work a little more on staying grounded and developing the domestic sphere—which is very much the other side of your earthy Virgo needs.
In the love stakes there is a considerable difference in style. Your shy and reserved expression doesn’t usually give way to your deeper passions. Sagittarius is an enterprising visionary and prefers to experiment with these natural urges. If you are to enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship with Sagittarius, you need to put aside your mental gymnastics and simply enjoy the moment for what it is. Sagittarius will appreciate you all the more for it.
Your relationship with those born between 23 November and 1 December is probably the best fit. Those born between 2 and 11 December are abrasive to you. This is due to the co-rulership by Aries and Mars. In fact, this could be a dangerous combination and should be approached with caution. The fiery nature of these Sagittarians could cause a nervous burnout to your delicate Virgo system. The Sun and Leo, on the other hand, co-rule Sagittarians born between 12 and 22 December and they also may not offer you everything you are looking for in a partner. Nevertheless, they do have something to bring to a relationship in the way of spiritual insight. You may meet these people while travelling or indulge your penchant for long-distance travel with them.
Virgo + Capricorn
Earth + Earth = Solid Ground
The elemental compatibility of Virgo with Capricorn is a no-brainer. You have an instantaneous rapport with Capricorn who will seem less serious and work-orientated than they might with other star signs. Though you both essentially have a thoroughly economical and pragmatic view of the world, your rulership by Mercury will draw out the more sullen Saturn-ruled Capricorn and make them feel refreshed, youthful and responsive to you. In the ancient Hindu system of astrology Mercury is called a young boy, which is possibly why Capricorns feel revitalised in your company. Mercury will bring out the more mischievous and pleasurable side of the usually cold and ambitious Capricorn. This is not to say both of you can’t work towards a material goal, but in your company Capricorn will feel more enlivened, more joyful and prepared to let go of the walls and protective mechanisms that are often a part of their conventional nature.
Though this seems to be more of a business-orientated relationship, Capricorn does fall in the fifth sector to Virgo and strongly highlights the amorous nature of this combination. Could it be that with a Capricorn you don’t feel as much of a tendency to be critical and to superimpose your concept of things? This in itself is what could bring out the more sensitive and loving aspects of Capricorn, though always against the background of a desire to provide you security and long-term comfort.
Those Capricorns born between 11 and 20 January will be ideally suited to you because the co-rulership of Mercury and Virgo for them is a perfect match. Those born between 23 December and 1 January are well suited and more financial and material objectives of the friendship may result. A sensual experience can be expected with those born between 2 and 10 January under the co-rulership of Taurus and Venus.
Virgo + Aquarius
Earth + Air = Dust
If ever a sign were going to challenge and baffle the observant Virgo, Aquarius would certainly be it. There is an unusually strange compatibility between you and this may not be immediately recognisable. Your first meetings may come about through some work or professional interaction in which Aquarius is called upon to assist you. You probably see much of yourself in the humanitarian and socially conscious Aquarian, but in a different way. The Aquarian is not as preoccupied with the nitty-gritty of things as you are, but is still very concerned with the idea of contributing to the community and the world as a whole. These noble ideas will attract your Virgo sensibilities and are a good basis for a relationship.
Aquarius needs to be mindful of tidiness and order, which is high on your list of priorities. They must accept that an orderly existence is crucial for you but they may be less concerned about these matters. Between the two of you there could be some idealistic tie-in in which you both serve each other by bringing your distinctly different skill sets together, amalgamating them for some greater cause. Just don’t superimpose any fussiness on the aloof Aquarian.
You may see in Aquarius an ideal that doesn’t fit easily into your intellectual ‘square’. This also applies to sex and intimacy. You must learn to be freer and more open in exploring what Aquarius has on offer. The best match would be with an Aquarian born between 31 January and 8 February, as they possess several similar intellectual traits to you. Aquarians born between 9 and 19 February are also well suited as partners and provide you with abundant sexual enjoyment. Those born between 21 and 30 January are probably the hardest lot for you to come to terms with. They may be better suited as work colleagues rather than as long-term romantic mates.
Virgo + Pisces
Earth + Water = Mud
The anomaly in a union between Virgo and Pisces is that both signs are opposite and usually indicate strong, marital inclinations. At the same time, you have such different approaches in terms of your personalities that it is quite surprising you would be attracted in the first place! But attracted you are and this is possibly due to the intuitive nature of Pisces, which is just what you need to bring out your less rational and emotional nature. Simultaneously, your astute intellectual manner will be well imbibed by your Pisces counterpart.
Both of you are changeable and moody in your own way, and the deeper issue here is that you are particularly motivated to understand, categorise and solve each and every problem meticulously. Pisces is happy to let the deeper spiritual forces bring answers to them. You may interpret this as a form of intellectual laziness and will even see it as ample opportunity for attack. Sensitive Pisces may not retaliate, since water signs tend to be deep and brooding and bide their time until the appropriate occasion for a response. The sharp and caustic criticism of Virgo will scar Pisces deeply and this will, in the long run, scare them off. The onus is on you, Virgo, to pull back a little and not make such heavy demands. With a tactful approach, a thriving partnership can be expected and possibly even a marriage of souls.
Your best combinations are with Pisces born between 20 and 28 February and these Pisces will offer you the most stable and continuing chances for a fulfiling relationship. Those Pisces born between 1 and 10 March also make great friends and sensitive admirers. Those born between 11 and 20 March are strong communicators, but may not be quite as open to your criticisms. In fact, a retaliatory response from those born in this period can be expected.
Would You Let Go?
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if ur girl tells u that she loves the way u hold, touch n embrace her it means that she is letting u noe that ur special to her n that she loves everything about u.....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
if ur girl always says that ur better than her in all field it means that she always wans to b number two after u n she always wans u there to guide her through her life n most importantly she respects u....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never gives up n always waits for u patiently no matter how long it takes for u to come back to her it means that she never wanna b without u n ur the only one in her heart n the one she truly loves......would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never asks u why u never call or say 'i love u' to her as often as she does it means that she's trying her best to understand ur situation n she doesnt wanna u to get sick of her complaning. it means she really loves u n she's so damn understanding....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never rushes u into a relationship even after u confess ur feelings to her just bcoz u told her to wait for u till ur work is done it means dat she is willing to wait for u for the rest of her life just to hear the word yes i wanna b with u bcoz she loves only u n she's willing to sacrifice it....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
if ur girl cries for u just becoz she misses u it means that she always wans to be wit u n she only feels secure when she's wit u....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?
if ur girl is happy for u no matter what ur happy about its means that she willing to share ur joy n happiness even if at that moment she is goin through pain....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who truly loves u?
if ur girl tells u that she loves the way u hold, touch n embrace her it means that she is letting u noe that ur special to her n that she loves everything about u.....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
if ur girl always says that ur better than her in all field it means that she always wans to b number two after u n she always wans u there to guide her through her life n most importantly she respects u....would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never gives up n always waits for u patiently no matter how long it takes for u to come back to her it means that she never wanna b without u n ur the only one in her heart n the one she truly loves......would u wanna let go of ur girl....the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never asks u why u never call or say 'i love u' to her as often as she does it means that she's trying her best to understand ur situation n she doesnt wanna u to get sick of her complaning. it means she really loves u n she's so damn understanding....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never rushes u into a relationship even after u confess ur feelings to her just bcoz u told her to wait for u till ur work is done it means dat she is willing to wait for u for the rest of her life just to hear the word yes i wanna b with u bcoz she loves only u n she's willing to sacrifice it....would u wanna let go of ur girl...the only one who loves u?
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Cherish
Message:
This is really sad.
If you have problems in your relationships, try and fix them.
Dont pretend its okay.
Dont push your girls away, they are everything to you.
Maybe the best thing for you.
Listen to them, Treat them like princesses, go out of your way once and a while for them, take care of them when they are sad, and dont let go.
Girl: hey baby i want to show you....
Boy: ( cutting her off ) ugh i'm so mad
Girl: why? whats wrong ?
Boy: ugh everything
Girl: explain baby
Boy: just lost a championship game, parents flipped out on me for no reason, and im catching a cold
Girl: well hey there will always be other games, you know i'll take care of you when you r sick, what your parents flip about ?
Boy: they are making me pay them for a car repair
Girl: is it alot of money
Boy: no it just sucks
Boy: but hey i dont feel well im going to go lay down
Boy: bye
Girl: wait i want to give you some...
Boy: cant it wait til tommorow ?
Girl: yeah sure
Girl: bye
Boy: bye
2 hours later a friend of hers asks her to go for a drive ... she goes..... her friend swerved to avoid a truck.... hitting a tree instead her friend was killed instantly.... she's in critical condition
This is the conversation between her sister and her boyfriend
Sister: omg ( crying )
Boy: what? whats wrong ?
Sister: my sister... your gf was involved in a major car wreck
Boy: is she ok ??????
Sister: shes in critical condition
Boy: i'll be there in 10 minutes
He shows up to the hospital room ...standing outside the door going over the last conversation in his mind over and over as he heard the machines beep and beep and breathing tubes pump
Boy: she wanted to give me something or tell me something
Girls mom: yeah this... it was an envelope smelling like she did sealed with a kiss in lipstick
He opened it.....
It said .....
you r everything to me....
I love you with everything i am and everything i have...
I want to spend the rest of my life with you...
Sealed in it was a ripped movie ticket from the first movie they went to and the first picture they took together
He kissed the picture as a tear fell from his face onto the picture it looked as if in the picture she was crying then the machines flatlined....
3 minutes later she was pronounced dead
This is really sad.
If you have problems in your relationships, try and fix them.
Dont pretend its okay.
Dont push your girls away, they are everything to you.
Maybe the best thing for you.
Listen to them, Treat them like princesses, go out of your way once and a while for them, take care of them when they are sad, and dont let go.
Girl: hey baby i want to show you....
Boy: ( cutting her off ) ugh i'm so mad
Girl: why? whats wrong ?
Boy: ugh everything
Girl: explain baby
Boy: just lost a championship game, parents flipped out on me for no reason, and im catching a cold
Girl: well hey there will always be other games, you know i'll take care of you when you r sick, what your parents flip about ?
Boy: they are making me pay them for a car repair
Girl: is it alot of money
Boy: no it just sucks
Boy: but hey i dont feel well im going to go lay down
Boy: bye
Girl: wait i want to give you some...
Boy: cant it wait til tommorow ?
Girl: yeah sure
Girl: bye
Boy: bye
2 hours later a friend of hers asks her to go for a drive ... she goes..... her friend swerved to avoid a truck.... hitting a tree instead her friend was killed instantly.... she's in critical condition
This is the conversation between her sister and her boyfriend
Sister: omg ( crying )
Boy: what? whats wrong ?
Sister: my sister... your gf was involved in a major car wreck
Boy: is she ok ??????
Sister: shes in critical condition
Boy: i'll be there in 10 minutes
He shows up to the hospital room ...standing outside the door going over the last conversation in his mind over and over as he heard the machines beep and beep and breathing tubes pump
Boy: she wanted to give me something or tell me something
Girls mom: yeah this... it was an envelope smelling like she did sealed with a kiss in lipstick
He opened it.....
It said .....
you r everything to me....
I love you with everything i am and everything i have...
I want to spend the rest of my life with you...
Sealed in it was a ripped movie ticket from the first movie they went to and the first picture they took together
He kissed the picture as a tear fell from his face onto the picture it looked as if in the picture she was crying then the machines flatlined....
3 minutes later she was pronounced dead
Nice Bulletin
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push!
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.
Some people make the world special by just being in it.
Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.
True friendship never ends.
Friends are forever.
Good friends are like stars... you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.
If u love something...let it go.
If it comes back to you its yours....
If it doesn't then it never was.
A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love.
A hug is just a hug>until its from the one ur thinking of.
A dream is just a dream until u make it come true.
LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.
Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes.
Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.
Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push!
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.
Some people make the world special by just being in it.
Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.
True friendship never ends.
Friends are forever.
Good friends are like stars... you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.
If u love something...let it go.
If it comes back to you its yours....
If it doesn't then it never was.
A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love.
A hug is just a hug>until its from the one ur thinking of.
A dream is just a dream until u make it come true.
LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.
Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes.
Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.
Bulletin
I only know of one couple that fits to a 't' and they've been married over 70 years... gives the rest of us a challenge.. doesn't it?
Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say, I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."
She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away.
He always liked to do things early, way before the time. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.
She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.
She would sit for hours, In her husband's favorite chair. While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.
A year went by, and it was to live without her mate.
With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate.
Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, The doorbell rang, and there were roses sitting by her door.
She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.
The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain, Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?
"I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,"
The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you would want to know. The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.
There is a standing order, that I have on file down here,
And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year.
There also is another thing, that I think you should know, He wrote a special little card... he did this years ago.
Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here, that's the card that should be sentto you the following year."
She thanked him and hung up the phone, n her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached To get the card.
Inside the card, she saw tha the had written her a note.
Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote...
"Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone.
I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.
I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real.
Or if it was the other way,I know how I would feel.
The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.
I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve.
I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.
When you get these roses, think of all the happiness, That we had together, and how both of us were blessed.
I have always loved you and I know I always will.
But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.
Please... try to find happiness, while living out your days.
I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways.
The roses will come every year, and they will only stop, When your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.
But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt To take the roses to the place, where I've instructed him. and place the roses where we are, together once again.
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say, I love you even more this year, than last year on this day. My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."
She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear. She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away.
He always liked to do things early, way before the time. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.
She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.
She would sit for hours, In her husband's favorite chair. While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.
A year went by, and it was to live without her mate.
With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate.
Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, The doorbell rang, and there were roses sitting by her door.
She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.
The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain, Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?
"I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,"
The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you would want to know. The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.
There is a standing order, that I have on file down here,
And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year.
There also is another thing, that I think you should know, He wrote a special little card... he did this years ago.
Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here, that's the card that should be sentto you the following year."
She thanked him and hung up the phone, n her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached To get the card.
Inside the card, she saw tha the had written her a note.
Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote...
"Hello my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone.
I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.
I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real.
Or if it was the other way,I know how I would feel.
The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.
I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve.
I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.
When you get these roses, think of all the happiness, That we had together, and how both of us were blessed.
I have always loved you and I know I always will.
But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.
Please... try to find happiness, while living out your days.
I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways.
The roses will come every year, and they will only stop, When your door's not answered, when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.
But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt To take the roses to the place, where I've instructed him. and place the roses where we are, together once again.
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
Saturday, July 02, 2005
Fate brings them together, but destiny pulls them apart.
Nice Bulletin posted by my fren though it might be fictitious, gd to have such things to happen (for the first part only la).. Haha
Daniel and Jasmine are sitting alone in the park one night..
Daniel: I guess we are the leftovers in this world
Jasmine: I think so... All of my friends have boyfriends and we are only the 2 persons left in this world without any special person in our lives
Daniel: Yup I don't know what to do
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game
Daniel: What game?Jasmine: i'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact i don't anything to do for the following weeks...
DAY 1:
They watch their first movie and they both touched in a romantic film
DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have a picnic...Daniel and Jasmine have their quality time together
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they ride on a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she touched Daniel's hand but she touched someone else's hand and they both laughed...
DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice and the fortune teller said: "My darling, Please don't waste the time of your life... Spend the rest of your time together happily." Then tears flow out from the teller's eyes..
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something..
DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident..
DAY 29:
11:37pm
Jasmine and Daniel sat in the park where they first decided to play this game...
Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine...Do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple Juice that's all..
Daniel: Wait for me....
20mins later... a stranger approached Jasmine
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Why yes? What happened?
Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel and he is critical in the hospital
11:57pm
The doctor went out of the emergency room and he handed out an apple juice and a letter
Doctor: We found this in Daniel’s pocket
Jasmine reads the letter and it says:Jasmine, This past few days, I realized you are a really cute girl and I am really falling for you..Your cherish smile your everything when we played this game... Before this game would end...I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.... I love you Jasmine....
Jasmine crumples the paper and shouted:"Daniel ! I don't want you to die... I love you...Remember that night when we saw a meteor, I mumbled something... I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and never end this game. Please don't leave me Daniel.... I love you! You cannot do this to me!"
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30TH DAY...
***************************************
Always love your loved ones and show them how you feel before it is too late... You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace... If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion and love to your lovedones?
Today is the day.... Love them while they are still here...
Daniel and Jasmine are sitting alone in the park one night..
Daniel: I guess we are the leftovers in this world
Jasmine: I think so... All of my friends have boyfriends and we are only the 2 persons left in this world without any special person in our lives
Daniel: Yup I don't know what to do
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game
Daniel: What game?Jasmine: i'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact i don't anything to do for the following weeks...
DAY 1:
They watch their first movie and they both touched in a romantic film
DAY 4:
They went to the beach and have a picnic...Daniel and Jasmine have their quality time together
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they ride on a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she touched Daniel's hand but she touched someone else's hand and they both laughed...
DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice and the fortune teller said: "My darling, Please don't waste the time of your life... Spend the rest of your time together happily." Then tears flow out from the teller's eyes..
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something..
DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumpy road Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident..
DAY 29:
11:37pm
Jasmine and Daniel sat in the park where they first decided to play this game...
Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine...Do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple Juice that's all..
Daniel: Wait for me....
20mins later... a stranger approached Jasmine
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Why yes? What happened?
Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel and he is critical in the hospital
11:57pm
The doctor went out of the emergency room and he handed out an apple juice and a letter
Doctor: We found this in Daniel’s pocket
Jasmine reads the letter and it says:Jasmine, This past few days, I realized you are a really cute girl and I am really falling for you..Your cherish smile your everything when we played this game... Before this game would end...I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.... I love you Jasmine....
Jasmine crumples the paper and shouted:"Daniel ! I don't want you to die... I love you...Remember that night when we saw a meteor, I mumbled something... I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and never end this game. Please don't leave me Daniel.... I love you! You cannot do this to me!"
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30TH DAY...
***************************************
Always love your loved ones and show them how you feel before it is too late... You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace... If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion and love to your lovedones?
Today is the day.... Love them while they are still here...
Nice Story
From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.
Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, but she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset.
With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vented her anger on him.
As for him, he only endured it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas.
Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talkthem round. Will you marry me?"
The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged.
The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work, a car that lost control knocked her down. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted tocomfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...
The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.
During the stay in hospital, besides crying in silence, it's still just the silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know whathappened to her. Since then, there wasn't any more news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.
When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.
He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.” With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.
If u really like the story, repost it so that your frens can read it too....
Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, but she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset.
With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vented her anger on him.
As for him, he only endured it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas.
Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talkthem round. Will you marry me?"
The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged.
The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work, a car that lost control knocked her down. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted tocomfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...
The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.
During the stay in hospital, besides crying in silence, it's still just the silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment, the girl learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know whathappened to her. Since then, there wasn't any more news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.
When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.
He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.” With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.
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